Or is the grass SOMETIMES more greener on the other side?
2006-11-11 20:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
no, i don't think everybody goes threw the same kind of pain,
and remember god doesn't give a person anymore then they can handle. i am a 37 yr. old woman,
I have been dealt a crappy hand my whole life.
i was married & divorced, he was a run around and had children with several women & they have had his baby's,
yes i said, he had sex with several women, and had children.
oh wait, it gets better,
i then was remarried, to a good man, he was disable. i worked and took care of him, and our children.
he was that person you really could grow with. then the unthinkable happend.
he died next to me in bed one night not long ago his family robbed my house, they took me threw probated, i didn't have the money for an attorney, and i lost every thing.
all i got was the house with a lot of money owed on it. be cause i bought him a 2005. harley i put the loan against the house. they stoled the bike from me one night, then it misteriously showed up. and they got that also, $28,000 bike.
they ran me and my children out of our home.
they mad threats about setting the house on fire w/ all of us in it.
running us off the road, shotting us. you name it they said it.
i was raped one night on my way home from babysitting, left for dead. i was 14.
but you know what, i servived and made all of those bad things in to goodthings. everybad and everygood thing we go threw. it all happens for a reason. you can take the good with the bad. and look at everthing around you. really how bad can it be. just chalk it up as experience. and move on the best you know how.
just when you start feeling bad or sad, remember, it could be worse, no matter how bad it gets.
2006-11-13 06:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody goes through pain in their life - the magnitude is pain is definitely not equal from one person to the next, but the pain felt can affect each person in a devastating way.
Someone who has the 'golden life' can be hurt and have thoughts of suicide just as easily as someone from an abusive home. Neither pain is greater nor lesser than the other. All pain is relative as well as all happiness.
Cheers!
2006-11-12 02:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! Ask someone in Baghdad. The grass is always greener ....! till you get to the other side ...then the other side is the other side!
2006-11-11 20:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by toecee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every person has his or her demons in life.
What might seem to be a fantastic lifestyle to you as you watch how he or she lives, the truth is there might be some hidden tragedy connected to it.
But to say an equal amount of pain? No, probably not.
2006-11-12 07:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have seen people who have never had to worry about anything, & others whose families had so much pain & tragedy I don't know how they could bear it. Reincarnation is the only thing I feel is a reasonable explanation for this.
2006-11-12 10:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. some people go through much more pain, definitely. and these people's pain are signs for others to be appreciative of what they have.
2006-11-11 22:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about the equal part, but i don't think there's a living person who hasn't experienced pain in life..
2006-11-11 22:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, people do not struggle by way of an equivalent quantity of discomfort. specially circumstances the grass is greener on the different area, yet once you enable God shelter the grass you have already got, then YOUR grass would be greener.
2016-10-21 22:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.it's GOD's wisdom, some people were meant to cause pain, and some other people were meant to receive that pain.
2006-11-11 20:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by Nolimits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...all depends on your karma in your present life and also all your past life that is left to spend.
2006-11-12 07:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋