I am about to be married in 1 month. its an aranged marriage. my would be is the only son of his parents. his mother is overly protective of him; she does not allow him to even drive to office. he seems to be either ok with his mothers overbearing nature or has resigned himself to her nature--- i dont know. 2 times my would be proposed to go out with me (sponteniously, not with the permission of his mother) and both times he did not. he did not bother to inform me whether he is coming or not and when i called him the the evening (5.30) he said he would come surely but cannot given me precise time of his arrival.To save him embarrasement i said he maynot come if he is busy and i will attend to some other work in the market meanwhile.he agrees. next day early in morning his mother calls and asks me to go out with him to attend some mutual work in the market. this happened twice. he indirectly blaims me to have massacred his plans of going out. the message of his mother clear.
2006-11-11 18:31:22 · 6 answers · asked by xyz4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well babe it sounds like you will also be marring his mother. it seems as if she hasn't cut the cord. r you okay with this arranged marriage? is this what you truly want or what your parents want?
2006-11-11 20:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a momma's boy! If there is any way you can get out of this arranged marriage RUN. It will never get any better. If you live in the US you do not have to marry anyone you don't want to. If you do get married, you already know who will be wearing the pants in the family, your mother-in-law. What a heartbreaking situation. I am so sorry for you.
2006-11-12 02:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by chillsister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are opening yourself up for a lifetime of mizery. Get out of this stupid aranged marrage while you can. Run away or do whatever you have to do. He is a spinless prick who will never do anything without his mommy's permission. Get away! Good Luck. Email me if you want
2006-11-12 02:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he is already married- to his mother! Run- don't walk away from this pre arranged "marriage"
2006-11-12 02:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by verdes0j0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys both might be to young for marriage, i would wait, or find someone else,his mom doesnt want to let her baby son go, so let him be with her, so she can ruin his life, you dont need her to ruin yours either.
2006-11-12 02:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him.
2006-11-12 10:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋