does anyone support virginity until marriage?

Answer 1

As you can see, many people do support virginity until marriage. A woman becomes emotionally bonded to a man when she sleeps with him, due to release of oxytocin, a hormone that promotes closeness and trust. That's why, for women especially, it's important that she waits until she is formally committed to a man, and he to her, before having sex with him. Women who have "serial" sexual partners often become shopworn, vulnerable, sad, and cynical. I know I will be criticized for writing this, but socio-biology supports it, and Mother Nature cannot be fooled.

Answer 2

Long ago it was a sacred thing these days most girls 14 + admit to have had sex .Whilst I agree it is special and should be for marriage in my case Both my fiancee and I new we were the only one for each other and didnt wait .It had no harmfull affect on us we had a great sex life after marriage from what I hear from other men much better than most we were both happy and agreeable .But there lies the difference we both new how much we got along as friends then an item engaged after 3 years married the 4 year of course being a gentleman I made sure she would never get pregnant or her mum would have killed me .Now she knows all and out of 4 of her children we were the only lasting relationship.

Answer 3

It's an ideal when you believe in the romaticized version of marriage. Even Jessica Simpson believed in it. But look at her marriage. Didn't do so hot, did it? Rumors were that she cheated. Even when a woman's virginity was her only asset, people still cheated. Virginity is overrated when it comes to getting married. If you won't get married because the other person isn't a virgin, you don't love them unconditionally, which is a requirement of a marriage to work.

Answer 4

I do...I wish I could have stayed virgin until the day I met my boyfriend...he wishes the same, that he would have waited for me. If only we knew...It would have been so much more special...but you make it what you want to make it too. It is very special between us, but not naive as it was the first time. I wish I could have had better understanding of what I was getting myself into and that my parents were more open about sexuality.
I think it's okay to wait until marriage but if you find the love of your life and are sure you will be faithful, then go ahead. There is nothing wrong with making love to the person you love!
I do find it wrong to have sex with a bunch of people just to 'supposedly' become more experienced, so when you get to marriage you know what you're doing. That is B.S., because sex comes natural in 'us' humans, so it does not matter if we have done it before or not, you should just give yourself completely and lovingly to the situation and you will find yourself very experienced. I did not have much experience before my boyfriend and when we started getting intimate he thought I was very good, but I told him I just feel for the first time I am giving myself completely into the situation and love doing it...so it comes natural.

Answer 5

It's a nice thought. Sex should be with someone you love and only if you are old enough to accept the consequences (babies).

The world is more complex and so are relationships. I believe one should put off marriage until one has experienced the world and has understood themselves more maturely.

Everyone is different, but too many people rush into it, have kids, and find themselves unhappy having no real idea why.

Marriage was invented when people only lived to be thirty.

Answer 6

Do your best to stay a virgin until married. Most people, men & women, will want to have sex before marriage. Most men don't want to get married and if we do, we don't wanna wait to have sex. Women, will automatically assume that if a man is a virgin, he doesn't know how to put his thang in motion and will drop the guy faster than a hot potato over a trash can.

Answer 7

I do support it, but you got to look at it this way, why dont the men save theres, they give up there virginity, why do you think men have sex, because they abuse it, and just marry the virginity, and divorce them i have seen a lot of men do that, its so wrong, so why does the females need to wait?

Answer 8

I do but in this day and ago, most people think your crazy for doing it especially if you are a guy. The hope of love and wanted to give your wife something that you can only give once and you gave it to her... seems like a fairytale dream to most.

Unfortuantly most people do believe in dreams anymore, especially with the high divorce rate and the new study that just came out this month saying that over 50% of the couples who live together in the U.S aren't married

Answer 9

Absolutely, studies prove that those who have sex before marriage, live together before marriage, have children before marriage, have a much higher divorce rate.

Some in society claim that you have to determine if you are sexually compatible before you get married. Let's be reasonable, you have a penis and vagina. The penis goes in the vagina and it's a perfect design. Love and intimacy on the other hand are something cultivated over time. We all long to be loved and we all need intimacy but we mistake sex with love and intimacy.

The longer you are married, the stronger your love and intimacy grow if you actively pursue it and both people are committed to transparency and trust.

Our culture fails to understand that sex is not only physical, it is spiritual. When you have sex with someone you join yourself to them. That's one of the reasons it's so much more difficult to break up with someone after you have had sex with them. Sex creates a much deeper attachment. When you enter into marriage, not having had sex, you offer your spouse a wonderful gift in intimacy and privacy. It is also a wonderful journey that the two of you travel on as you learn how to please one another through decades of loving one another.

Answer 10

I DO. Very strongly.

This is how I feel about it ...

You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.

You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.

If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.

Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.

I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of 9 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...


In summary:

Don't do it before marriage

Because it creates emotional attachments.
Because it creates high expectations for the future.
Because it hurts a hell of a lot more after the break-up.
Because there's a chance of getting an STD.
Because there's a chance of getting pregnant... NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TO TRY TO PREVENT IT.

I say people should just be safe and save the sex till marriage.