Is it ok to chose to be single and wait for the right person while your ex choses to get over you through a casual relationship? Should I be getting out there more or is it ok to take time to be single?
2006-11-11 18:20:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take all the time you want or need, watching him trip and fall will let you know that rushing into anything does have it's drawbacks and you'll get a good feeling seeing him with mud on his knees.
2006-11-11 18:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are single then you are very able to get out there more. Getting out there doesn't mean you have to fall into a relationship right away. Being single means you can enjoy your freedom and independence. You shouldn't be any persons "stepping stone".
2006-11-12 03:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I usually feel the need to regroup when ending one relationship before thinking about dating. that is not to say that I will not go out and flirt and enjoy another persons attention. But I usually do not let it go any further than that. Intense relationships can sometimes cause on to lose oneself, hence it is good in that it allows us to learn about who we are and how we can change and grow. I think time to think about what worked, what did not work, and what you would do differently is necessary at the end of every relationship, intimate or otherwise
2006-11-12 02:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to be single, get over your ex, and figure out what you want, have fun.
2006-11-12 02:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by tanner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right person to come along and don't worry about what your ex is doing. He is your ex and what he does with his life does not affect what you do with yours.
2006-11-12 02:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Aurora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about what your ex is doing. It is okay to be single, it may be just what you need to do. He may be jumping into dating too quickly. Are you still interested in him? Maybe that's why it's on your mind.
2006-11-12 02:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by raven dismukes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right person,is a better idea.
2006-11-12 02:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What your Ex does should have no reflection on you. If you want to be happily single, be so. Frankly, bed hopping is overrated.
2006-11-12 02:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take time to just be with yourself.
You don't NEED someone right now.
Have faith in God and know that He has a plan for you.
He will give you that person when the time comes.
2006-11-12 02:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel ready to be in a relationship so soon then don't, don't worry about your ex do you... im in the same situation right now so trust me just worry about your **** and dont pay attention to him that way you'll move on quicker ...
2006-11-12 02:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋