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Where does this person fit in?
She always wears black shirts, like, plain usually. Or band shirts, w/jeans. She doesn't like dresses, but skirts sort of. She's shy, but not around her own friends. She's constantly paranoid about everything around her. After each day, she replays events in her head and thinks of how she made a fool of herself. She does everything 3 times. Everything. When she looks at numbers on digital clocks, she makes them equal 3, 0, or 6, (using math)
She's really intelligent, but never applies herself: she is a procrastinator. She gets awkward with people and hates social gatherings.
She waits for motivation. She's an artist, or a musician, or a bookworm, or a band geek; she gets bad grades but aces Every test.
She is friendly, and knows many people, but doesn't think of them as best friends.
She does wonders when motivated. Her family tears her apart. She is jealous of her sister's extroverted disposition. She always doubts herself.
Average girl, right..?

2006-11-11 18:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by . 3 in Social Science Psychology

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She is a lady of surpassing beauty, rivaled by no one. She does not focus on the outward appearance, rather she truly shines from the inside, especially around those that matter to her. Her focus on past events is a strength that enables her to better herself, though she views her mistakes as discouraging. Her intelligence is never misapplied, or mistaken for that matter, though it is often misunderstood. Her slow and graceful approach toward a problem may be viewed by some as procrastination, but in reality the tasks at hand are not worthy of her. She is meant for greater things. She feels the awkwardness that is felt around others is a downfall caused by her, but it is by no means her fault, and from this knowledge she can draw strength and courage. Motivation toils night and day with little success to find a single thing that is grand enough and that is worthy enough of her attention. She paints a beautiful sunset, she composes a woefully complex concerto, she reads the grandest books ever to grace the shelf, she takes a garage band all the way to the top. She focuses on what matters and throws aside everything else. She is kind, a person many look up to. She will construct the next wonder of the world if motivation deems the task worthy of her. Her family does not understand her beauty and importance in this world, though both are great indeed. Although she feels jealousy toward her sister, her sister is the one who is truly jealous of her. Her kind and confident disposition is worth more than anything else in the world. She questions herself, not to tear herself down, but to be certain that the right desicion is being made.
She is extraordinary.

2006-11-11 19:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Luke C. 2 · 0 0

If she is an average girl these days that is sad. She sounds like a girl who has been abused emotionally and/or physically. She has been told negative things and/or had negative things happen to herself to make her constantly worry and doubt herself. she just happen to be brilliantly gifted but has been conditioned to hide her self because of the pain and trauma she has experienced in her life. She probably is extremely depressed and may need some type of therapy at some time in her life. Give her a hug and tell her how beautiful her soul is. Make her smile.. she needs and deserves it.

2006-11-12 02:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 0 0

well i kind of fill sorry 4 this girl cuz her family should never belittle her...and it could explain alot about this girl... No i don't think she is average,,,maybe becuz i don't know what a average normal person is anymore. what i mean is what is normal anymore....but if she is an artist or a musician or a band geek maybe she is above average maybe you should set your parents straight.... I use 2 play fav. with my daughters and my oldest told me how much it hurt her...Now i try and work with her and take her side a little more

2006-11-12 02:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hmmm....
average in most ways, except above average in the category of having the neurosis concerned with examining onesself.

it seems to me that this person needs to realize that almost all people have some sort of quirky and admirable abilities, and she needs to give up the struggle between feeling like a genius and feeling average.

everyone is special, so this person should take comfort in her averageness.

2006-11-12 02:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by markisme 5 · 1 0

She has an obsessive compulsive disorder. Other than that, she seems OK.

2006-11-12 17:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by mecasa 4 · 0 0

It's you. Just keep being you and stop worrying.

2006-11-12 03:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by 3 · 0 0

yes you ha just described half the girls i know lol

2006-11-12 02:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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