okay so my dad is cheating on her and i dont know how long exactly but i know its very long...i overhear phone conversations all the time of him talking to his mistress about the last time they had sex, how it was and planning the next meeting..really disgusting not to mention awkward (no i dont listen in on purpose..he talks loud and i can hear from my room)..my stepmom recently gave birth to a premature baby and while she was in the hospital he went to see the other woman..sad i know..funny thing is him and my stepmom were watchin Cheaters and he was commenting on how disgusting people who cheat are...anyway me and my dad dont get along so i wont "talk to him about it" open for suggestions though thanx ....i'm his daughter and i'm 19 in case anyone is wondering
2006-11-11 17:48:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hmmm, wonder how you got a stepmom in the first place. Don't get involved just learn from his mistakes and choose your mate and relationships well. Don't let this affect trust in your relationships it extremely important but be careful to choose a trustworthy person. Cheating is essentially dishonesty when you break it down and dishonest people aren't trustworthy.
2006-11-11 18:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it bothers you, I've been there, but stay out of it. This could be just a fling, you really don't know, and you don't want to be the cause of your fathers marriage busting up, no matter how you feel about him.
Find someone you can confide in, without them repeating what you talk about, and talk to them, just to get this stuff off your chest. I didn't have anyone to talk to, when I went through this, and then I was only about 8, when I found out, at any age this is tough to deal with. No girl wants to know her father is like alot of other men and cheat, they want to always believe the best in their father. I really do understand what you are going through.
2006-11-12 02:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww that is hard to say are to even judge. See what i would do is tell your step mom because she needs to no because you are a female and also wouldnt you want your step daugters to tell y7ou do the right thing what is the point of her being there hwen he is a slime bag not being rude but it sucks and if some one new that he was cheating on me i would hope that they tell me because i would tell them hope that helps you
2006-11-12 01:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Helpmeplease 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not close enough with your step mom to say something to her, then you need to just ignore it. It's sad to say, but it's not really your business & if you can't just confront your dad, then drop it and get out of there asap.
2006-11-12 01:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stepmom needs to know. it may not be easy, but i think anytime someone is being cheated on they deserve the right to know.
2006-11-12 02:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tak to him of course but i think u shuled tak to ur stepmom evn if u ppl rn't all dat close!!
2006-11-12 01:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much, take your life and leave that problem. It's his business not yours.
2006-11-12 03:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. Your father's marriage is HIS business not your's
2006-11-12 02:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your dad to stop doing that and if he doesn't you will tell your stepmother.
2006-11-12 01:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Buda B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋