Is it okay to fall in love with your bestfriend? He's nice, and I could be myself when he's around. He protected me when I was almost ganged, and he got stabbed for that (I feel guilty!). Then one day, he was waiting outside our door, when i opened it, I accidently kissed him! I thought he was my dad! Oh my God, then he blushed! And I kinda felt uneasy...What should I do? Please help me!
2006-11-11 17:23:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ruth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if u lyk him.. den GRAB him dnt let him got STEAL by OTHERS..... GO GURLS!! and of coures tell him u lyk HIM!!
2006-11-11 17:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll lay it out for you in nice easy steps.
Accidentally kissing someone, and falling in love with someone are two completely different things.
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Are you sure you love the guy?
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If you don't, why are we having this conversation? Once you've answered that question, I'll pose another.
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Do you see this going anywhere?
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Could you see yourself married to him? Because if you can't, all of this is for naught. If you don't get married, the only other course is breaking up. Once you've answered THAT question, you have two choices.
(1.) Don't say anything. Apologize for the weird kiss thing, and go on living your life; friends forever.
(2.) Decide that you love him, and take the leap and tell him so. I he reciprocates, great, you already know the guy, get married! If he doesn't...well, you decided to take that risk.
Either way, no, it's not weird or socially unacceptable; in fact, it makes for some great toasts at the reception. It does present a problem however, in that acting on your feelings might put a serious block in your relationship, should things not work out.
Whatever you do, don't just stay silent and pine for him the rest of your life. Either act on it, or get over it.
2006-11-11 17:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is COMPLETLY ok to fall in love with your best friend, but there are some complications.
For instance, you all may not be able to act like yourselves around each other. You may be a bit uncomfortable, which a be a big problem in relationships.
Also, if you all start going out and you decide to hang out, it's not like a chill talk time, it's probably kissing or makeout time.
So you have to think, are you 2 ready for that? Are you all ready to seperate from being best friends and turn into lovers? Ask him. You have nothing to lose. I guarentee he won't get mad at you for asking, and I promise after you asked him, you'll feel better.
2006-11-11 17:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by curlyfries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should sincerely and by heart express u'r feelings to him.
but at the same time u should look for u'r parents
interests.it is not necessary to marry him. u can still share u'r personal feelings with him. i think u should let him know about your love for him.
go get ahead best of luck.
2006-11-11 17:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Singularity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my best friend after being friends for seven years. Stay who you are and give him all your best. I hope things work out for you. Be honest with yourself and with him and good things will come to you both.
2006-11-11 17:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I'm sorry my bad i didn't mean to kiss you i didn't know you were there and then ask if he forgives you and say don't tell anyone i kissed you okay
2006-11-11 17:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM...I feel in love with my best friend and how we've been dating for 3 years! its awesome!
2006-11-11 17:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by THE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just admit your love 4 him he might like you too
2006-11-11 17:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes......its better to make your best friend your boyfriend...less problem...but...it seems like you are still very young....i guess thats the problem...
2006-11-11 17:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Adele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋