Ok, I asked out this girl, named Ashely, she said yes and we had a great relationship then she got real mad at me and broke up with me the night before homecoming, she was so mad at me she broke up with me! Plus she slow danced with one of my best friends and he is going to take her to a movie yada yada yada and all. I thought I was ok, but I still like Ashely and I want to go out with her. What do I do now?
2006-11-11 17:00:30 · 15 answers · asked by zktnl27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have no clue what I did!!! All I know is that something was bugging her and I asked what was wrong, she said it had somem to do with me! So I asked again if she could tell me. She said she just couldnt tell me, and I said (like an idiot) I guess I just cant go out with u.
2006-11-11 17:13:55 · update #1
Whoa! You got a "Get out of jail free" card on that one! Don't fret! You should be rejoicing! Let's recap, shall we? You liked this girl. You had a "relationship." She got mad before homecoming and broke up with you but wouldnt tell you why?
Plus, she was purposefully interacting with one of your "best friends" (I have to guess he was suckered into it. Poor fella. She must be hypnotic.) and NOW, oh, NOW you still want to go out with her?
Little Miss is rude, inconsiderate, crafty, and vague.
Girls who play games are not girls you want to continue relationships with.
Girls who break commitments are not girls you want to have relationships with.
Girls who don't communicate are not ideal for relationships.
Girls who have watched too much of THE O.C and act like the characters on tv are not girls you want to date.
Feh. Celebrate being young and free. Have a coke and a smile and let Ashley drive somebody else nuts.
Tell Ashley to have a good time at the movie. Ask her to bring you some popcorn.
2006-11-11 18:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by smrt-e-pnts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like Ashley is pretty angry over whatever you fought about and is trying to make you jealous by making a play on your best friend. If you want to go out with her, you will have to try to soothe over whatever the fight was about. Tell her that you are really sorry you argued and you'd like another chance to be with her. Offer to take her out for an ice cream or buy her a little something. Sometimes it takes a little time for a girl to cool off. :) I hope things get better for you soon in your relationship.
2006-11-12 01:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You forgot the most important part: what did you do that got Ashely so mad at you? Add that as a detail and maybe we can give you a better answer.
2006-11-12 01:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't like guys who are weak. Don't let her know how much you want her back. Act like you aren't upset about her dating someone else. Try to act like she is just another girl at school. She will go crazy wondering why you aren't begging her to go out with you and will realize she wants you back. Let her do the chasing for a change.
2006-11-12 01:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go watch pokemon or semthing like that and forget about Ashely. did you mom know the you are using the computer?
2006-11-12 01:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First figure out what you did to piss her off and if ya can't make amends ,well women ae a dime a dozen so here is 50 cents, go find another one
2006-11-12 01:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her and your so-called friend, because obviously he has not respect for you by asking her out. And she is probably going to go out with you friend just to make you jealous.
2006-11-12 01:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by valerie v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet if she sees you out and having fun with another chick she will be a little more interested in you, especially if she thinks you are over her.
2006-11-12 01:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey you are so young yet , the best advice i ever got that last me a life time now was "Don't sweat the small things in life"
2006-11-12 01:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by kierstead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you lucked out. There are other fish in the sea, and there is someone out there for all of us. Forget her and find someone better.
2006-11-12 01:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by lindablue8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋