as elders male told me not to....
y can't i?
2006-11-11 16:49:01 · 26 answers · asked by Gnome_lee83 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
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2006-11-11 16:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sure you can. It can be messy though. Alot of times it feels great to the woman because it can help take cramps away and for some reason it is a little more sensitive "down there" at that time of the month. Put a towel under her butt so you dont make a mess!
2006-11-12 12:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep.
If you couldn't here would be the reasons:
-you don't wash yourself ever and, therefore, can't get a little messy
-she is totally uncomfortable with it
-you're uncomfortable with it
-It is considered risky sexual behaviour if you or her have not been tested because hiv and hepatitis are carried in the blood and more likely to be transmitted this way.
But, if you're already having sex, chances are you've both been tested or are using protection. And if not, do.
She won't get pregnant. The lining to support a fetus is being shed. If she does get pregnant, you've got very bad and weird luck.
But you can. So, if you're both okay with it, do.
2006-11-12 13:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by KeM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. Contrary to what others are saying, it does not mean she is more fertile during this period. She is not ovulating during her period.
Don't listen to that old sexist idea of no sex during periods, based on the notion that women are "dirty" or "evil" during their periods. It might get a little messy though, so use the shower, or towels, or do it only on the days of lighter flow.
2006-11-12 04:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Moo i'm a cow 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Their is no reason why you can't. Just put something underneath her or get in the shower together. Also, their is an old wives tale that a woman cannot get pregnant while she is on her period, WARNING!!!! THIS IS TOTALLY FALSE! USE PROTECTION!
2006-11-12 09:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is she cannot get pregnant during this time.
The bad news is it can be a bit messy - some men don't mind. Put a towel underneath and go for it!
2006-11-12 05:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you? Yes....you can do whatever. Howeve, you shouldnt because it is unclean. It is more than likely that elders say not to for reasons based in the Bible.....I believe in Moses teachings.
2006-11-12 02:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you can, elders say not to because its just a forgotten superstition, something to do with women being evil or some other stupid thing
2006-11-12 01:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by heathen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a woman point of view the answer is yes and if she wants to during that time of the month.
2006-11-12 01:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by 100yroldtree 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but it get's messy.
I think it is gross. I am not at all turned on during that time. But a couple of days before it starts, I'm an animal.
2006-11-12 00:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to, and she's happy to go along with it, then by all means... but you might want to do it on a towel or something - it is messy and smells pretty bad.
2006-11-12 00:57:49 · answer #11 · answered by damselfly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋