I don't want to marry another loser, like I did with my ex, and I don't know if my bfr. worth it. he's 19 yrs.my senior, has 3 children from previous marriage, sold his house, and his wife took half whatever he had. But he still has his business and staff. I have to stay with him for another yr and half, so would it be better for me to spend this time as a married woman and see how it goes or I shouldn't bother???
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Look at the situation businesswise. i have to attend school and don't want to waste time in my personal life. I want my time be productive.
2006-11-11 16:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"I have to stay with him for another yr and half,..."
What's that about? Did you move in with him? Are you staying there as a house guest? Are you intimate with him already?
Sounds like a really bad arrangement for you (not for him).
I'd get some distance in this relationship so that you can make a better judgment about everything. You will have to put up with a huge drain on finances as he apprently got taken to the cleaners by his exwife.
I doubt that this is going to work out for you.
2006-11-11 17:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's too old for you. Why do you have to stay with him for another year and a half? Is he paying for your education? The whole scenario is wrong. Don't marry him. Too many problems to deal with. He'll be paying for his kids until they are all eighteen. Doesn't sound like the relationship is based on love anyway. If you marry him, someday you will see that it wasn't the right choice. No love and/or marriage relationship should be based on a business decision. Did he leave his wife because of you? Doesn't sound like you are being truthful with him either. You are not only wasting your time but also his.
2006-11-12 06:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't not get married. you are looking at the situation from a bus sines prospective and you can't look at marriage like that. You sup post to get married for love to you spouse and love and business are two totally different things.
2006-11-12 01:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going into a marriage with all your heart it will be doomed to failure from the start. If you already questioning whether you should be with him it is probably time to find someone else that you really want to be with.
2006-11-12 01:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by hawkeye316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you married him for all the wrong reasons in my opion leave him lifes to short to worry about this ok just my opion but is fact. my opion?
2006-11-12 01:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't get married just to see how it goes...c'mon.
you are marrying him for all the worong reason's right there.
2006-11-12 00:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother. he is tooooo old for you number one and you do not need the extra baggage!!!!!
2006-11-12 01:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋