I would assume that the vast majority of marriages that end in divorce have had violence and/or cheating going on, but there's got to be a few where that wasn't the case at all. What else could be so bad as to get divorced?
2006-11-11 16:39:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got tired of always doing all the work while he did nothing. I got tired of being alone - even with him right there. I got tired of having no-one to rely on, to lean on for emotional or mental support.
I just plain got tired of being the only person who put forth the effort.
No, he wasn't cheating. No, he wasn't abusive. I just couldn't stand the loneliness of having him around. I was less lonely by myself, strange as that sounds.
2006-11-11 17:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect your assumption isn't completely correct but I haven't any statistics to back that thought. You may be right.
I never laid a hand on my bride in violence, never hopped into bed with another woman (or man!), gave her the checkbook, we moved where and when she wanted to, didn't spend my money on lots of drink or any gambling.
Yeah, it sucked - someone else is now in the house I bought and paid for the remodeling. But now she's his problem. And I have to say that considering what is now essentially "no-fault" divorce, the magistrate was pretty dang equitable. And I'm free from the blaming and shaming and fault-finding. Course, it took about a year to get to this place - I'm feeling much better now!
2006-11-12 00:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i was divorced without any violence or cheating. I divorced him because he was lazy and wouldnt get a job!
2006-11-12 00:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by ijtcald 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No violence or cheating. He lost my trust due to money matters. Caused us to have to file bankruptcy. I never did learn when he spent the missing money on but I have a good idea.
2006-11-12 01:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced My husband of 4 yrs because of boredom. No communication. We both grew in different directions and were no longer happy.
2006-11-12 11:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Catherinefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did ...because i had gotten married so young the first time. and i ask for the divorce because i had changed inside. he was a good man ,sweet country boy.
think i don't live with that on my conscinous?
2006-11-12 00:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people marry for the wrong reasons. Sometimes it's finances and other times people are not compatible.
2006-11-12 00:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more love between to two. you can be faithful and respectful but not in love. sometimes the other person may not make us feel good or bring out the best in us
2006-11-12 00:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I seperated when we realized we made a mistake and were better off as friends. We tried a few more times to no avail. "It" just wasn't there.
2006-11-12 00:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just emotionally check out - you grow apart instead of growing together, and suddenly you find yourself out of love and miserable and just wanting to start over.
2006-11-12 00:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by rrmorris45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋