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Question

okay,so my mom's been making me carpooling with this dude that goes 2 my school. he's a real douchebag(also a bully) 2 both me and others at school, especially with his partner in crime (his cousin), but he yearns 4 friends because he barely has any. and since he lives close 2 me, he pretty much takes advantage of me. he'll come over 2 my house whenever he feels n then he'll constantly invite me over. he tries 2 b nice 2 me at times n even lies 2 me 2 make me feel better. but i know for a fact that he makes fun of me behind my back. it always feels awkward when im around him. im never comfortable. And whenever i say i cant come over or whatever, it sounds like he gets pissed at me. its like i can never say "no." so now im constantly stuck with him for 3/4ths of my day, everyday. hes taking up my life and i wanna stop it.

...n e help?

Answer 1

You could... 1. Tell him how you feel 2. Cut him off- always be busy or have something to do when he wants to do something; so what if he gets pissed; eventually he'll get the picture 3. Don't open the door- just b/c he thinks you are home doesn't mean that you are

Answer 2

okk when he asks you to come over you just need to say no... and if he gets really mad then tell him you have other plans or something because obviously you arent to fond of this guy...... but you cant really do anything about the whole carpooling thing because your mom probably will still make you work there so that part your sort of stuck with but when he asks you to come over just say no!! and if he doesnt leave then just call the cops

Answer 3

sit down and talk to him. if he is a friend then he will listen carefully. let him know what you like and what your dislikes are.
why do you feel that you have to be at his beck and call.
your not his mother,( that's her job.)
if you don't like to car pool with him then tell your parents how he makes you feel uncomforable. then maybe you and mom can get something worked out for that. good luck kido