i was so tired of this life, it feels like i just hold on to live and not living the life itself, i dunno what to deal with this and i think about suicide all the time who cares, my fam isnt here about... i've got noone here, don't tell me to make friends, if u're in this situation u'll know why...why should I go on living with so many disabilities? I've got a bad hearing, my physical health isn't good, I can't speak normally like other people, my eyes are not good, and I'm young. why should God let me live here, i've no idea, everyday seems like hell here...
2006-11-11 16:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by wonder why 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
In this LIFE God wants you to learn and grow. Do not bail out or you will just be born again in a life that is even worst than the one you have (starving in Africa, homeless in Puerto Rico etc.)
God gave you the free will to create a life for your soul this time around. YOU picked this life as you wanted to grow in a certain way. This was your choice in heaven when you charted your course. Now that it is here and it is hard you want to bail out.
NEVER. Dont do it. You leave this world to a part of heaven that is dark and has crying souls. You sit in this place and wait for your next life. It is not the pretty happy place other souls go to.
Ok, so you have disabilites and problems you are still a good soul a good person. Find out what the meaning for this life is, what was your plan. Experiment? Find out how you can help others. By helping others you change your life. Even in small ways. Dont be home all the time that is the worst for you. Get out.
No matter how bad you think your life is others have it worst (and they are still here). And no matter how hard life is it always gets easier. I am a perfect example. I wanted to die too when I was a teen. I did not like myself, I hated my terrible home life, my family ignored me and my needs, I had few friends, I always lost the boyfriends. Was Life worth living? Dying was the easy way out and I finally chose to take the hard way. I decided I could change my life and I did. Slowly it changed. I went to college which gave me friends and boyfriends and exciting experiences. I worked my way through as I could not afford it. I changed my bad points and turned them into a better person, loving, caring, intelligent, strong, powerful, and assertive.
My life changed 360 degrees. I got married to the man I love (he is not perfect either but we been together 30 yrs) and I had two boys who are now men. I worked hard in my life and now live a life where I can do what I want when I want, it is bliss.
You may not believe there is a reason for everything and everyperson. Stange that my older son is in the Army in Iraq and he was there to save many lives (he is getting a top award for doing so). If I did not give birth to him, all these men would be dead. That is destiny. That is how one life (mine) can affect a whole lot of lives. It is the CIRCLE OF LIFE.
And you life is important too. It can change the lives of others. Please live your life, you are not worthless, you are Gods creation and he loves you, disabilties and all.
2006-11-11 16:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don`t really know what physical disabilities and health problems you have but the world will not stop because you want to stop move on in life. You can go take a look on the street, cars and people are moving and every one is doing their daily routine. You are connected to the world just like you are connected to the internet, if you are disconnected to the internet, do you think the internet will died and no one can connect to the internet, probably NO. I read a magazine couple days ago, a US solder got blow up in Iraq but he survived, so now you have an idea what I am going to tell you right. He lost his left hand, 3 fingers on his right hand, his right eye is blind, has no ears, no hair, pretty disgusting nose and mouth, his appearance is beyond recognition, and he is really young too, not even young adult yet. He also did brain surgery and 4 times surgery on his eyes and used laser to remove his burned black skin. He still live on, planning his life etc… His girl friend married him and she said that she loves him to death, and they are the inspiration for many other people, so I hope this will help you. This is a love story that really teaches everyone a great lesson, but my knowledge is still too low to judge their story.
2006-11-12 00:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hermes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I understand... I'm tired of it too. I am young and have numerous health problems and have had 4 surgeries already and haven't even hit 30 years old, I'm not even half way there yet. I have other health and mental problem too but....
If God didn't want us to be here then we just wouldn't be here. We need to remember that it's all up to Him. If you think life sucks now, just think of how much worse it will be if we don't get into Heaven because we took our own lives. It's about the worst insult a person can give to God, it's like saying "yeah I know you went to all the lengths to line up the stars just right to get me conceived and give me life, but this life isn't good enough for me that you gave me so I'm taking it away." I can't think of a much worse insult to God than that.
I have been through crap nearly every day of my life and I have been badgered like crazy with hailstorms in life and it sucks, no doubt. But we have to trust in God and sometimes difficult situations are a test to see how strong we can really be, and when things are so bad that they can't get any worse, remember that only leaves one option: for things to finally start getting better. Just trust that God knows what he is doing and he would never purposefully hurt us, there is a plan for everyone and things in life will start lining up eventually.
2006-11-12 00:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by jennnnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd look into visiting people who are less fortunate that you. Or read books by people who are less fortunate than you and find out what they live for. A book I'd recommend is "Joni". It's about a young girl who became paralyzed after a diving accident. You might be amazed at how much living there is to do even in your condition. My heart goes out to you. I've read some of the things you've written on this site and it seems you communicate well. Just sharing some of your experiences and feelings can be helpful to others and that's a good reason to keep going. You should also express your feelings to God. Pray continually and I think He will show you why you're here. He's got a reason for everything. I know. I wanted to commit suicide during my divorce. But I imagined what would happen if I carried it out and this is what I came up with: I'd kill myself, die, and then meet my maker who would probably say, "You IDIOT!" Why didn't you hold on just a little longer!? Then He'd show me what would have happened if I hadn't killed myself and it turned out to be something really cool that He had planned. He'd show me that and say, "Look what I had planned for you! IDIOT!" I'd sit there wanting to kick myself for having screwed up a really good plan. So, after having played that scenario out in my mind, I decided to forget suicide. And ya know what? He DID have something really cool planned! The coolest woman fell in love with me and now we are happily married! It happened even though I lived in Virginia and she lived in California!!!! You are very young and a lot can work out for you. God can do amazing things if we are just patient enough to wait out His plans. Good luck! I will remember you in my prayers!
2006-11-12 00:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so now you have to seek out the truth of the whole situation. What life is really about and why are we here. You have to understand karma and reincarnation to understand why we are suffering. What we have to understand is the process to transcend the whole material situation. Killing oneself does not get one out of misery, it only makes it worse, If one kills them self they become a ghost who is always thinking of the situation they where in at the moment of death, which is alway miserable. Then one has no senses to enjoy so they try to take over other peoples bodies. If you are lonely now you will be even more lonely then because practically no one sees you. I suggest you go to http://www.stephen-knapp.com and get The Key to real happiness and also the path to enlightenment and there are so many books you can read there on line. Don't give up pray like anything for God to Bring you closer to Him and to bring you help. I promise you this knowledge will help you if you let it. Write me if you need more help. Gauranga! (Gore-runga) -Universal greeting _May the greatest good and highest joy be yours.
2006-11-12 00:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sssshhhh. You are focusing on the material. Close your eyes and take a deep breath and then let your mind go. Too many thoughts. To many wonders and worries. What is your spirit like. Free from your mortal bonds to soar like an eagle over a landscape of clouds and mountains,crystal blue lakes and wide green fields. Picture it in your mind let yourself go.
2006-11-12 00:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone to listen. i mean, really listen. all these people give advice and their opinion, but you need to let out what you are feeling and thinking. look for a psychologist or therapist (i don't even know if that's the same thing). you need someone who knows what it is you are dealing with and who can help you deal with it a little more easily. don't give up hope. i can't tell you i know how you feel, because i don't; i can't say much of anything here because it's more than words. please just look for someone to listen. you are worth every second of life you have.
2006-11-12 00:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by jamoncita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a valuable person.You are special. You are strong. You will overcome this. I have never met you, but I believe in you. I know you can get through this.
What is your favorite thing to do? If you kill yourself, you will not be able to enjoy it anymore. You are a modern day warrior and you will win this battle. Life is hard and it may seem hopeless, but never give up. I admire you for your courage in going on day after day.
2006-11-12 00:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-12 00:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-11-12 00:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋