i got in a fight with this girl and i deleted her from all of my myspaces and my friends deleted her too. but now ever since i did tht people are acting mean towards me. i dont kno if its karma or if shes saying someonthing about me to them. i dont know what to do and i feel like backing out and forgiving her bcuz i dont want to be in a fight with anyone.
should i back out or wait for her to say something and want to make up?
2006-11-11 15:48:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
she said im fukin annoying and that she hates me and all my friends think im annoying. so i confronted her and said to get a life and to stop messing around with mine than she deleted me on myspace THEN i deleted her on my other myspaces.
2006-11-11 15:58:11 · update #1
shes been mean to me MULTIPLE TIMES lets say, oooh um like 30+
2006-11-11 15:59:04 · update #2
i got "out of control" cuz im tired of her crap
2006-11-11 15:59:29 · update #3
im going to see her everyday so i cant just forget about her!!!
2006-11-11 16:07:08 · update #4
No matter what anyone else does, it does not give you a right to be ugly as well. It sounds like you need to have more self-control when you allow yourself to get upset.
2006-11-11 15:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well im not gonna blame u for confronting her, i meanive gotten into a fair bit of these situations so i can definately speak from experience when i say, apologise! just call her up n say that maybe u overreacted and its not worth it blowing ur friendship over something this small. make sure u add her back on all of ur my spaces just to prove it. your not lying by saying that you miss her, because if you didnt, u wldnt have bothered posting this. tell her tt n ull probably get ur friendship back. if ur still suspicious of her, just try keeping ur distance from her, like be nice without revealing too much info.. see if tt works. as for what she said abt ur other friends, u cld always try asking someone ur really close to if its true or not. either way, just let it go, she was probably just trying to get under ur skin.. gdluck with her!
2006-11-11 18:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are acting mean b/c you are immature and mean.
I know you must be young, but dang! you got what you deserve. You should apologize and cross your fingers the karma fairy hears it.
p.s. it sounds like you were thinking ppl would side with you and well . . . they didn't. You're asking more for your own good than because you did something wrong and want to make ammends.
She probably told everyone the truth: you are immature and mean.
2006-11-11 15:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are in a relationship, sometimes you have to do things that you don't want to...and I think it is very wise of you to consider apologizing and being friends with her again...
(I have a similar situation, but my person has not communicated back with me...I made the first move by sending a mass-mailing thingy and including him in it...he has not responded.
But, this way I know that I tried. (The ball is in his court now-unless he has blocked me.)
I guess the lesson to learn thru osmosis from me is that if you do decide to send a message, she may have blocked you. (problem solved)
2006-11-11 15:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by guudkarma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, That was step 1. Now you need to psychologically destroy your opponent.
Follow her everywhere she goes, making sure she knows she's being followd and send her menacing threats in the post. Once she has started getting clinical help, consider the war over.
2006-11-11 15:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by pulldeplug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be both if it was a silly fight then you can somehow talk to her,if it was serious enough that you stand by what happened then sometimes you have to lose some friendships they we're not friends in the beginning.hope you can figure out whats best for you ,yourself.cheers!
2006-11-11 15:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by pink dolphin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to quarrel. You should get together and discus your problem calmly .try to see your part in it and apologies for YOUR actions. If she chooses not to , at least you made the effort and were mature enough to admit you own faults and try to reconcile the situation.
2006-11-11 15:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by WESTERN M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends what she did. take the time to talk to her and apologise, even if you don't mean it, just to keep the peace within you and her, and all your friends.
Women are complicated creatures, sometimes best to let them think they've won, and it'll work out best for you in the end, therefore you win!!! (if that makes sense...)
2006-11-11 15:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by djmonsta200883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on what the fight was about. It's up to you in the end.
2006-11-11 15:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes life to short
2006-11-12 22:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋