i got in a fight with this girl and i deleted her from all of my myspaces and my friends deleted her too. but now ever since i did tht people are acting mean towards me. i dont kno if its karma or if shes saying someonthing about me to them. i dont know what to do and i feel like backing out and forgiving her bcuz i dont want to be in a fight with anyone.
should i back out or wait for her to say something and want to make up?
2006-11-11 15:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what do u mean...... no what?
2006-11-11 15:49:54 · update #1
Let her make the first move.
2006-11-11 15:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Goofy Goofer Goof Goof Goof ! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to find out if the fight was drastic enough to delete her. If you realize that it wasn't, then tell her that you didn't mean to get so upset. Say you were having a bad day and that you're sorry. If you know that the fighting was a good reason to delete her, then dance to your own beat of the drum. You shouldn't feel as if you have to change your mind just cause these girls aren't gonna like you afterwards. Do what you wanna do, and don't worry about the people that are getting mad at you. Ignore them. You won't get in a fight with them if you're not trying to start something. Good luck.
2006-11-11 16:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were angry and you did what you had to do. If she is talkn bad about you than no you shouldnt say your sorry cause thats just being stupid on your part and i dont think its karma cause karma doenst always turn on you by the same person that you harmed. But if she isnt saying those things than tell her how sorry you are if she is saying bad stuff about you than move on you can do better than that
2006-11-11 16:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are ready to forgive her, then you should talk to her about it and work it. But only if you feel that you are ready. However you do need to find out why people are being mean to you, if it is because of what this girl is saying then you need to say something to her, and hopefully you will be able to work it out.
Email her and say that you want to talk to her and then progress from there
2006-11-11 20:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.... what was the fight about? are yall really good friends? do yall fight often? too many unanswered questions yall will probably be friends for a long time to come and have lots of disagreements
2006-11-11 18:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, ask her whats going on or if she spreading rumors around about you and if she is let people know the truth!
2006-11-11 16:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by c_maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no chill it will pass
2006-11-11 15:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2006-11-11 15:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋