one of my very close guy friends,steven,has started acting very wierd toward me.he's started being perverted to me and his best buddy cody says that everytime he asks him about it,he says he don't like me but yesterday somebody asked him if he liked me and his said no but his face got really red.it was right after he was actin like he was puttin his arm around me and rubbin my knee.the other day i went to a basketball game and me and steven and cody went home in a 15 passenger van.his coach was taking us home and he layd down in the back seat and i was in the 1 in front of him and cody was in the one in front of me and him and cody started to mess up my hair to get me mad but instead of messin it up, he kinna played with it instead of messin it up.it was really gentle not like cody.then steven came to the place i was gonna get my pictures made at and while i was gettin them done he was watchin me.then the next day at school he said i looked good.does he like me? i'm real dumb at knowin
2006-11-11 14:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by i luv chocolate!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea....hahaha i am pretty much doing the exact same to the girl i have been friends with for a long time....he deff has a thing for you.
2006-11-11 15:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by i cant live like this!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Redneckgurl,
Yes he likes you, and he doesn't have a lot of experience with this. He's probably afraid his friends will tease him if he likes a girl. He's probably also afraid that you won't go out with him if he asks. You're afraid he might just be fooling you.
As long as he's not trying to win a bet with his friends by "nailing" you, he will keep showing a little interest. If it lasts longer than 6 months, it's probably real. Guys usually won't wait that long for a bet.
In the mean time, try making "friends". Make sure he knows that you like him in as least SOME way, but that you are not ready for a really serious relationship. You could say something like this, "I really like guys who ____________*." *Insert something about him that you like and make sure that he can't miss knowing you're talking about him. For example: "I really like guys who make me laugh, he he, ha ha, tee hee, giggle, giggle..." Make DIRECT EYE CONTACT with him and flutter your eyelashes a bit when you do it. If you're not comfortable with doing this, practice in front of a mirror when you're alone until you think you are practiced enough. Don't rush. That spoils all the fun of starting a relationship. The most fun part is the flirting while you start getting to know each other.
Good Luck : )
2006-11-11 15:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you...he just can't say it for fear of rejection...this is common in young adults. He is flirting with you and wants your attention but he is afraid to actually ask you to go out because he's afraid you will say no.
Instead call him...and ask him if he would want to go on a date with you...and he'll probably clam up big time..but tell him if he wants to then you will be happy to go out with him.
This isn't a new concept...it's been going on for many years...men and women for that part..have the fear of rejection....if you like him...go for it..if you don't...then tell him that also
2006-11-11 15:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting like a dork though he is interested.- He is not ready for a relationship. Do you really, really want someone acting this way around you ALL THE TIME?
2006-11-11 15:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course.
obviously you know this in your heart.
youve cleared that up easily.
if you like him, then ask him out.
it could end nicely.
♥
2006-11-11 15:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what...nope, not even going to respond tot his crud.
2006-11-11 15:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes you...
2006-11-11 15:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup, he has feelings for you
2006-11-11 15:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Idk but you are a redneck
2006-11-11 15:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋