I'm really angry at one of my friends. She's been using me a lot lately, because she just broke up with her boyfriend and he's having fun without her. They just got back together two days ago, and now she won't even talk to me anymore. She'd been my best friend for years before they started dating, but as soon as they did, she ditched me to be with him all the time. I'm really angry with her, but I don't know how to tell her. What can I do?
2006-11-11 14:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by Krissy_Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her how u feel
2006-11-11 15:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with her and tell her the truth and explain your feelings to her. BE HONEST and don't make it sound like you are blaming her or coming down on her about it. Just be as truthful and honest as you can. She may not even know that she is doing this. Be sure to listen to what she has to say too. Also make it a point to tell her how much you value your friendship. Hope this helps!
2006-11-11 23:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. You have to talk to her if you value your friendship.
B. She probably has no idea how it has affected you.
C. She sounds like she needs a guy to validate her....hence her co-dependent behavior
D. You need to be chill about it though....as much as you have so many feelings about.
E. Say, I am so happy this is working out for you, and I know you want to spend as much time with him seeing as what you have been through with the breakup.....but I miss you!!! Can you work me in too....I am feeling a little neglected and used!! I know you don't mean it, but what about balance!!!!! You need the girlfriends!!!
2006-11-11 23:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that he became your lfe in two day but what about the day when he was not there i was with you every moment when ever you wanted me and you forgot all the day when we had fun just in two day.
i'll suggest you something never in life make best friend coz when they go they hurt you lot and the use you but if you be friends then never hurt you
2006-11-11 23:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel
although it is natural for people to spend less time with thier friends when they are in a relationship, its still wrong to completely ditch them
my best friend and i each have a boyfriend, but we set aside time for us to be together ('coz we love our girl talk!! ^_^v)
arrange for a lunch and talk to her about and organize a "girls-night-out" once a week to maintain your friendship
2006-11-11 23:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just talk 2 her about it....since yall are pretty good from what it seems like you should just tell her she is making you feel crappy. i'm sure she'll understand if shes your bestfriend
2006-11-11 23:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by i cant live like this!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f*ck off and act like it don't bother you there is plenty of better friends anyway well actually i'd tell you to tell her to stop acting like a ***** but your acting like one worse than she is so you can't really say anything to her!!!!!!
2006-11-11 23:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by 69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋