well my man had called me eariler and ask me if i wanted 2 spend the night out with him and then i had ask my mother and she sayed no and then she was like you should wait and till u and your boyfriend moved and im am glad that i had a job and the only reason why im am still here with her is because i do not have any money saved ^ for me and my man 2 moved and i had find us a place to moved 2 and she is trying 2 control my life and run my life and then she hads 2 know everything and & everywhere that i go with my boyfriend and she is also noisy and she is always ^ in me and my man business and she needs 2 go find her some business or go get some of own business, please help me cause i will be glad when i move in with my man and she always have something 2 say and me and my man do not have any mney saved ^ for us 2 moved yet and then we do have any money saved ^ do u think that me & my man should just saved ^ are money first and then after that we can move like asap. please help me.
2006-11-11 14:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do your man work? if not you don't need to go anywhere you can't just up and move like that how long you've been with the man .you think its all ice cream and cake it's not slow down do you know if he's good with paying bills ask your self these questioons first before you have to move right back in with your mother. Good Luck!
2006-11-11 14:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Goose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you ask your mother if you could spend a night with your man.... obviously she's going to get the impression you're going to be doing more then sleeping. you should have lied (i know its wrong... but parents ALWAYS assume the worst...)
and if you want to move in with your man, save up... obviously.
but i wouldnt suggest it if your under 18. it's important to have a healthy relashonship with your parents, and living at home helps. it's also EXTREMELY stressfull living on your own. you need to think about bills all the time. it youre in school, its hard to do hmwk, you'll have no social life...
2006-11-11 14:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by kale 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are about 15 and still under your mom's control. How old are you and the bf? Old enough to get jobs? Mature and responsible enough to pay bills on time? Careful enough to not become parents right away? Will you have to live on welfare and have the rest of us pay for you? Your question sounds very immature. I hope you really are older than you sound. Right now you sound like a little kid who's mom told her "no" about something.
2006-11-11 14:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young, and your mom is probably doing the right thing. You probably don't want to hear you have the rest of your life to get serious about guys, but sounds like you should wait. Young kids get obsessed with guys/girls and feel it's the only way to go! Wait til you grow up a little more!!
2006-11-11 15:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by bonbon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, if you are under your mothers roof, she can say what you can and can't do while living there. If you want to make your own rules, move out. Until then, respect her and her rules. It sounds like you need to move out asap so yes, save all the money you can so you can get out asap!
2006-11-11 14:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look you should not even be worried about a boyfriend at this point because you have ur whole life planned ahead of u and boys are just another littel sum sum to handle basically extra food on your plate. trust me just wait and listen to yo momma.
2006-11-11 15:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.Lovin Graze 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH how wonderful it is to live under mom's roof and disrespect her.you do not have a man you have a boy.the best he can do is spend a night at a friends?can't afford a cheap motel?I advice you to stay in school.your spelling is awful.make something of yourself before you get pregnant.prove to your mom you love and appreciate her.
2006-11-11 14:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
quit whining and move out already if you want to do whatever you want to do. and for the record when you live with your parents you have to follow their rules. that's just the way it goes.
and by the way please take some English lessons. it was so hard trying to read your post!
2006-11-11 14:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and your man need an education.
2006-11-11 15:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
Save your money and be patient.
Why do you wanna rush into anything?
2006-11-11 14:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋