My boy-friend and I have been together for 6yrs and have a daughter together. It seems like he doesn't talk to me about anything else but sex, the gym, food, baseball and work. I'm a good listener, but when I bring up a subject "I" want to talk about, he doesn't want to hear what I have to say, unless he asks the questions to me. Like if I say I would like to go to another country for vacation, someday. He'll change the subject and talk about his usual topics that I have to listen to the same thing. Basically if I talk to him about something that has nothing to do with his favorite topics, he doesn't seem to want to carry on with my conversation. He'll change it and go back to what "he" always talks about. I can't take it anymore. Sometimes he'll tell me to text him sexy messages and I do, but he asks me to do it everynight. I don't have a good imagination. So I get to send him the same messages everynight and he wants me to come up with something new. I'm out of ideas.
2006-11-11 14:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you will text him new messages when he starts talking and listening to what you have to say and want to talk about. I would have told him to shut up long ago. If he is selfish enough not to even listen to you in that way I wouldn't listen to him either until he does. He obviously doesn't have the same respect for you that you give him and if I were you I would demand it. GL
2006-11-11 14:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a controlling person. It's a one sided relationship. He only wants to talk to you on his conditions. I think that you need to tell him how you feel about this, if he'll listen.
2006-11-11 14:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to go for pre-marital counseling and get married.
2006-11-11 14:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋