me and a girl named lauren use to be the best of friends. we moved on and we were friend with a girl named chandler. although we knew chandler didn't like me. lauren changed for chandler. shes mean to me. and chandler keeps telling me how there both angels and how im evil although i dont talk behind peoples backs, i want to work things out, i hate fighting, etc. im basically a good girl. i just cant take it. i want to be laurens friend. but i dont want to be chandlers.
BUT GET THIS EVERY TIME THEY FIGHT CHADLER TRIES TO BE NICE TO ME SO ILL BE HER FRIEND! HELP ME!!! PLEASE
2006-11-11 14:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think that's what you choose between them both on who your are going to pick as a friend you know but it's hard and you don't hurt anyones feelings either just tell them you need time to think on which one you want to be friends with.
2006-11-11 14:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by lilmnhockeyfan2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I will try to answer best I can to help. I had this best friend (so I thought) Sally for about 10 years. She had to move away because she was being harassed by a guy. Anyway she said she could not tell anyone where she was going because she was afraid this guy might find out. We had spoke on the phone several times because she had kept the same number.
Well one day I found out she had told others where she was and I was very hurt. I had told her we could not be friends any longer. This was about a year ago. She has called a mutual friend and asked him to tell me to call her. I have not called her and this was about 4 months ago. I have forgiven her but do not desire to have a person like that in my life as my friend.
Well God has opened a door for me to have several other friends and He can do the same for you.
It seems like these 2 girls are immature and deserve to be friends with each other. I know it is hard but I would let go of it because you are better than that and you will find better friends I guarantee it! God Bless
2006-11-11 14:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by jennalangdon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to make new friends but sometimes life puts you in crisis situations to get you to open your eyes to a new opportunity. Start looking around and seriously think about making friends with someone who could use a friend and start hanging out with her. Eventually, Lauren will get tired of this Chandler girl but even if she doesn't I think you're eventually going to be a lot happier with new friends.
2006-11-11 14:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be worrying about people like that. These "friends" of yours are not good friends at all. If they turned on you, why would you want to be friends with them? Let them do what they want, and don't even give them the time of day. Meet some other friends and forget those mean girls... you really don't need them. Friends are suppose to be there for you and be kind to you. You're suppose to enjoy their company and have good times... not stress or suffer.
It's best not to fight.. just keep your distance and find some new people until they mature and decide to treat you right (all the time, not when they feel like it.)
2006-11-11 14:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by spanish kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to lauren when chadler is not with her.
2006-11-11 14:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by basselilaian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ignore both of them and try to find other friends. I know it's not easy but that is definitely what you should do.
2006-11-11 14:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be either girls friends, they deserve each other with their childish ways. Go out there and find some new friends and tell these two adios...............
2006-11-11 14:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋