every time i have sex i can't have an orgasm i dont know why, and when i'm having sex with my boyfriend it gets really sensitive and i tell him to stop, he tells me to keep going and i always try but then i can't take the sensitiv feeling anymore, what is wrong with me why can't i have a orgasm?
2006-11-11 14:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by DEE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
And Yes i even play with my self in the shower w/ the shower massager and it get really sensitive and i stop
2006-11-11 14:31:53 · update #1
I DONT KNOW WHY YOUR HAVING THIS SENSITIVITY U MIGHT NEED TO GO TO YOUR O.B. GYN AS FOR THE ORGASM... NOT ALL WOMEN EXPERIENCE AN ORGASM...HAVE U EVER REALLY HAD ONE? ALOT OF WOMEN THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT IT. YOU NEED TO REALLY RELAX AND KNOW HOW TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO HAVE ONE ITS NOT JUST UP TO YOUR PARTNER/BOYFRIEND HE'S THERE TO HELP,THAT'S FOR SURE BUT IT IS ALSO UP TO U
2006-11-11 14:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women do not have orgasms with intercourse. This is very common. The fact that you get close is a sign that you can have them via intercourse but just need to stop or slow way down for a bit and then try again. If you still can't tolerate it all the way to an orgasm don't feel bad or feel that you are not normal as all of this is ok. Ask your boyfriend to finish you off either orally or with his hand if you find you just can't tolerate intercourse to orgasm.
2006-11-11 14:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! I really don't know why all this people are giving such stupid answers! I mean, many woman don't have orgasms till' they reach their 40's or 50's. Not sure how old you are but anyway. This happens really often! Like even with masturbation or whatever you do you still can't. It happens to me. I get way to sensitive and it hurts (a good feeling pain) but then I stop. Is like I cant! But it's okay. I guess someday we will. lol. Don't worry about it to much. It's easier for some people, it's harder for others. And tell your boyfriend I said not to rush you or pressure you, it's just THAT HARD! Hope my advice works for you. :D
2006-11-11 15:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Brigitte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure exactly, but I know there are lots of good clinics today that can help you find the answer. Lots of women have trouble getting into the groove. Don't be too anxious about it. Just check with your local Planned Parenthood office and get some referrals to sex therapists.
2006-11-11 14:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try taking a bath without really taking one. go into the tub and wrap your legs around the faucet with warm pouring water into your you know where and have a fantasy good time. This works and will coach you to become a pro.
2006-11-11 14:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Maji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever masturbated? Easier to orgasm, that way at first. Find what you like. Maybe your boyfriend just sucks in bed.
2006-11-11 14:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by Nipivy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need a new man one that is sensitive to your needs.There is nothing with you a good man cant take care of.But if you think there is something with you go to a doctor.
2006-11-11 14:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be you, it may be your boyfriend. Have you tried anything other than sex, like oral or just having him touch you? Maybe try having him go slower or use more lubricant. Honestly if it hurts i would see your OB,,,,,good luck
2006-11-11 14:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by need4speed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a doctor
2006-11-11 14:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by prettyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋