I really gave him my all, I fell in love with him quickly and deeply. Everything was fine and then she being the mother of his child came to him with option of getting back together and he did it. Now, I'm left out with my feelings hurt. I just keep thinking about him, I know we didn't have anything or else he wouldn't have left me, but I'm really hurt. I'm turning 30 next mth and this crap with men is getting old. I thought he was a man. What am I gonna do now?
2006-11-11 14:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At 30 you know you will get over this eventually.
In the future do your heart a favor and try to avoid men with a lot of baggage.
In today's time 30 is very young, you have plenty of time to find the man who is right for you....just don't be in a rush because that's how mistakes are made....good luck to you.
2006-11-11 14:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way I see it you have 2 choices, remain alone, or get over it and start again. It's not easy but you will find the one for you. You just have to learn from all the past relationships that didn't work and try not to make the same mistakes when picking a mate. I believe their is someone for everyone out there, some just find them quicker than others. GL
2006-11-11 14:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. You will get over it..If he can make it for the child's sake that would be great..Then again he may come back crawling..saying I made a mistake...He must not have been over her..You will find someone else I am sure..Just pray and get out with friends.. Have some fun without strings for awhile...You still have to grieve some to get to a good healthy place in your life...You can do it ...
2006-11-11 14:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that he is doing what he thinks is best for his child. You can't compete with children. There were obviously residual feelings for the mother of his child so, sorry to say but he did what he had to do. Don't get discouraged. Try meeting people in new ways. Try going online to somewhere like plentyoffish.com. You can talk to people and get to know them that way. Keep your chin up!
2006-11-11 14:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.Pain will go away in time.Next time ,no guys with kids!!!! Even if the guy does'nt go back to the momma,there will always be drama.Very seldom are there ex's with kids that don't have some axe to grind.So learn from this Grasshopper ,party with a close friend and move on. And don't let him come back because it could and will happen again.
2006-11-11 14:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by mrimprovize59@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he was married still you should have known better he was just out for some extra. they tell you that there wife is this mean horrible person and all along they are telling there wife i love you everything is fine. And you also have to watch how long if they were not married were they divorced if he was at all.
2006-11-11 14:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably going wit u 2 make his baby momma jealous so she would come back 2 him. u don't deserve a man that don't appreaciate u as who u r and what u got! there r lotz of men out there that love u and give u their time and care 4 u. so don't give up jus bcuz that guy didn't know what he had when he had it. as a woman i would know i know it's hard lettin someone u love go, but u have to get over the past. bcuz he is the past. good luck
2006-11-11 14:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by BratzGurl18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time I think is the only thing that will make you feel better. I'm in close to the same situation so I feel for you. I know it hurts, time heals though. At least I hope it does.
2006-11-11 14:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerlillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that. Keep your chin up and know that Mr. Right is out there. Don't be in a hurry.
2006-11-11 14:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
....never sleep with your bf...always be good and you'll have no regrets..these guys are only using you dumb girls..then tossing you aside
2006-11-11 14:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋