ok so theres this guy that i met last summer, we hung out all the time because we were in the same summerschool class. but we were always with his friends because mine didn't go to summerschool. we hung out all summer and i thought he liked me. but then once school started he met some of my friends. and now he likes my best friend and also one of my other friends. he still talks to me all the time. and i can't tell if he's hanging out with me becuse he's my friend or becuase he wants to get to my other friends. he seems nice but i'm starting to think he's just using me. even though he knows that my friends don't like him. now i don't know what to do, because i don't want to be used like that, but on the other hand. i still think he's an ok guy, idk maybe i'm just jealous becuase i like him. although i try not to ever act jealous when i'm around him. i'm able to joke around with him about it all but is that sending him the wrong message?
what would you do if you were me?
2006-11-11 14:08:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You should deff talk to him about this, let him know that you have a crush on him and it upsets you to see him talking to your friends the same way, let him know that you thought you and him had something going on. Talk to your friends about this situation and tell them that when you met him in summerschool you sorta started liking him and now you feel as if they are getting in the way of things. If this guy still doesnt listen, move on find someone that will be worth your while. You deserve better than to chase after someone not worth it. If he likes you more than a friend he will understand best wishes.
2006-11-11 14:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend til he decides which girl he wants to date. So wait til he makes his move. Teenagers (boys & girls) seem to be attracted to many different boys or girls, at the same time. In this case it seems like he's interested in a few but don't want to make a move right now because he may have other options....so give him time to decide what he wants to do. It's up to him to decide which fish to catch. Whether it's you or somebody else. Good luck.
2006-11-11 14:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are truly that "he is an ok guy", then maybe you are really only interested in having him for a friend. Friends are great to have.
2006-11-11 14:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either take a risk and tell him how you feel or move on. It's never worth it to lose your friends over a guy.
2006-11-11 14:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by emmyfair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him...then jump on him when wrestling and ask him..are you interested with me? and tell him the truth..stop beating around the bush ok...just do it..then you'll know..
2006-11-11 14:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends if you want but I woulndt look for anything more. Focus on you and the right one for you will come along. When he does come along, there wont be any mixed signals.
2006-11-11 14:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhhhh he sooooooo does not like you.
you're acting all upidy and he can tell you like him.
You can pretty much always tell when someone likes you.
If I were you, I'd move on.
2006-11-11 14:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. There is someone better out there for you. Move on and find someone better.
2006-11-11 14:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-11 14:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i dunno, i had never been in that kind of situation, and no one ever liked me, and i had never had relationship, but if sumthing like dis will happen TO ME i will know for sure he likes my friend not me
2006-11-11 14:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋