I was three months pregnant I think when the guy who said he was going to marry me left me for a woman that has loads of money. I met this gynocologist and he has helped me loads. After he performed my c-section, things started changing and he asked me to look for another doctor cause he wants to date me. We have talked a lot. He became my friend and he really helped me when I needed to be helped. He loves my baby. He hasn't being disrespectful at all. He's not a creeper. He says he really likes me and I really like him. I think he's the best. He's a lot older than I am but I don't think that matters, but the most important thing for me it's my baby, I want everything for him and I just want to do what it is right for my child and I. Do you think it would be all right to date him?
2006-11-11 13:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He has got two children with his EX- wife
2006-11-11 14:06:39 · update #1
Ethically speaking, he's walking a VERY thin line. That he should ask you to find another health care provider (so that he can then ask you out on a date) is the safest thing he could do.
How do you truly feel about one another? I keep reading the word "like" in your narrative. "Like" is a starting point. Date him and see where it goes, but only if he is nolonger treating you as a patient. And be forwarned, it sounds as though you will be moving up the socio-economic scale. You might concider going back to school, if for no other reason other than self improvement, so that you can keep up in conversation (not saying you're stupid -- far from it). But he has an extreme amount of education and life experience under his belt, you will want to even the playing field just a little.
2006-11-11 13:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Doc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. And as long as this man treats you with the respect that you deserve then stick with him. And if this man is going to help you take care of a child that isn't his by blood, then that shows you right there that he is a good person. Because not all men out there will do that for you!
I wish you all the luck in the world and much happiness!!!
2006-11-11 21:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a grown woman and can date anyone you please. I would suggest taking it slow at first because of your situation. I am sure you have been under a lot of stress and emotions. Your baby needs the best part of you right now...but a happy mother makes a happier baby! Good luck and God Bless!
2006-11-11 21:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by momchelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like an odd story, one almost out a book.
Anywho, it would be a better story for the child to hear his father figure brought him into this world rather than anything else.
*shrug* much luck
2006-11-11 21:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by devinthedragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it you never know what lies ahead until you take a chane you know just have confidence in yourself and date him there is a chance this guy would not leave you for a woman with money he is the one that could marry you for love and the way you are you know so take your chances and have fun while doing it. life is too short for you too be thinking about going oput with him if he tells you he loves you and you love him back it will be fine...best wishes
2006-11-11 21:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by PiGmeNT OF cOlor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! go for it!! u have a good man that's been very helpful to u and respects u n loves ur child..so defnitely give him a chance n good luck!
2006-11-11 21:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to him, go for it! Money isn't everything, but it will eliminate many of the reasons most couples start to have problems!
2006-11-11 21:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sanmigsean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think you should, he sounds great but if you are asking this maybe theres other things on your mind so would say don't rush into things if your not really sure, it would be fair for either of you but its a big plus that he likes your baby
2006-11-11 21:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by angrhaylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a really nice man. I see no problem with it at all. Good luck :)
2006-11-11 21:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart girl. Do what's best for you and your child!!
2006-11-11 21:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Chriselda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋