He puts way too much emotional crap on me. (He's not my boyfriend, I think he may be gay actually) He's very feminine and loves to gossip, spread rummers, be a brat...that sort of thing. He is also very insecure about "who" he is, though he's in denial about it (by "who" I'm not referring to sexuality preference). He just complains and complains to me about everything and when I (with a nice tone) ask him to stop, calm down & to stop being so mean to me, he just yells at me saying how I'm such a bad friend! He never let's me get a word in...
HE'S VERY INTO HIGHSHOOL DRAMA. What should I do with him? Because I can't stand it!
2006-11-11 13:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had a friend just like him. My mother was diagnosed with cancer and was going through treatments. I was helping her as much as I could and my "friend" kept going on with drama stuff in her life. I got angry and told her to stop being so self centered and look what others are going through. She still did not get it and I finally wrote her a letter telling her that I could not take any more of her drama. It was stressing me out too much and I needed all my focus to be on my mom. To make a long story short, I ended up not calling her anymore and when she called me, I told her I could n't talk on the phone right now. I ended our friendship.......Do whats best for you, free your self from this drama. Theres nothing worse than having other people think YOU are a drama queen too because you hang around him.
2006-11-11 13:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by earinfection 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very weird want's is going on. Don't do anything...I would just sit as far away as possible if you really think she is trying to start something. As long as she is not interfering with your learning don't pay attention. Maybe she just has a personality disorder or some kind of mental issue...why would someone go through all that trouble. High school and college is a period when an individual in trying to "find themselves." Maybe some try to imitate other to fit in. Have u talk to anyone that you trust within the class to see if they have noticed what you have noticed? Maybe you are looking to much into it or maybe not If you feel threaten by this girl you might need to speak to someone such as student affairs, counselor, campus safety etc. A good resource is to visit the health/mental counseling center to discuss your problem and understand what's going on with this girl. Maybe they can help better understand or what to do. Just a thought. I have gone to college counseling in the past and they might be of some assistance. Is worth a shot and its free.
2016-05-22 06:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you cant get a word in edge wise because this person reacts to everything you might have to say, and does not give back the abiltiy to listen, i suggest writing a letter about how you feel, keeping the statements using " i feel, i think, im concern" etc. dont be afraid to mention the behaviors that seem to be distracting or frustrating to you. and give an ultimatum that your willing to carry through if the person continues with the behaviors. you do have choices and setting limits with others is one of them, just make sure you honor yourself enough to reinforce it. good luck dear.
2006-11-11 13:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away stop hanging out with him. Its not going to hurt to lose one friend. You tell him straight up in a tough tone. To stop being like this or your going to walk away and actually be a "bad friend". All this guy wants is your attention
2006-11-11 13:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT WALK, RUN AWAY, tell him that you dont want to be his friend at all because hes very immature and frankly hes embarassing you. He will probably talk about you behind your back, but at least you wont have to hear itt.
2006-11-11 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to ley off. Ok I am a drama queen. and I know when a good friend tell su eough it really puts u in ur place
2006-11-11 13:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him....Tell him your tired of his drama, if he can't stop tell him he should find some new friends who care to listen to his crap....
2006-11-11 13:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop his *** like a bad habit
2006-11-11 13:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by melissa l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can't stand his actions stop hanging out with him
2006-11-11 13:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fear he may be a thespian
There is no known cure.
2006-11-11 13:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋