So, after graduating from college, I studied abroad for a year, then moved back in with my parents and found a job after coming home to the US. I am finding life to be insanely lonely... most of my high school and college friends have scattered, so there's nobody close to home to really hang out with. All of my coworkers are living on their own now, so I feel immature and out of place in relation to them. What can I do to meet new friends, aside from going to a bar or a club?
2006-11-11 12:51:01 · 8 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
After college, it is usually neighbors, work associates, or people who you meet through your present friends (however scarce that number may be). And, often times, through chance encounters. Bars are not a good way to meet nice and decent people because while trying to find the nice guy, you will probably really get stuck with a jerk. If you are not involved with a church, you could always join one, and you will meet people there, or if you are involved, then just start talking to people! Usually, though, adult life is somewhat lonely as everyone is so concerned about their careers and families that they have no real time to be your friend.
2006-11-11 13:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just go out once in a while. This is no guarantee that you will find a friend or lover but this will help. In the first place, you do not have to try so hard of getting one. It will come you way sometimes in the most unexpected time. Just believe that someday, somehow, the right guy will come along.
Take it easy.
2006-11-11 13:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The college you graduated from should have an alumni association. It is good place to meet people who went to school there.
2006-11-11 12:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 05:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same experience. I am trying the net, and just trying to find people with the same interest that you have.
2006-11-11 14:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by prettydebutante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met a bunch of great people on myspace
2006-11-11 12:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the jump and look for guys (single) in your neiborhood
2006-11-11 12:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on s dating site and see if you get any bites on it.
2006-11-11 12:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by emily h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋