2006-11-11 12:47:09 · 17 answers · asked by ashley s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should know that anal sex can be very, very pleasurable, even orgasmic, when done right, so don't give up hope!
Your partner needs to understand that your anus needs a little preparation. Have him finger you, starting with one (lubricated) finger, and work his way up to three...slowly! When you two graduate to penile penetration, make sure there's plenty of lube (the rule of thumb: if you're think you're using too much, you're using just enough), and have him go SLOWLY, allowing you to become comfortable before he proceeds.
Plus, make sure you're CALM. Nerves will tighten you up!
You should push out as if you're having a BM, and while it's not very intimate, being on all fours will allow you to be the most "open," ideal for this situation. Save the fancy positions until you've become pros :)
With that in mind - patience, calmness, and lots of lube - you should expect a very, very good time!
I hope that helps, hun!
ps) don't EVER use lube that "numbs" the area! The idea is help you enjoy it too, not cease to feel anything so he can get his rocks off! :( Unacceptable!
2006-11-11 14:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Use more lube, relax, and foreplay to stretch the area before hand. There should be slight soreness after the fact, but a good sore. Not anything that you would call painful or hinder daily activities.
Good luck, play safe, and have fun.
2006-11-11 13:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, you can stop sticking things in your @ss. Seriously though, use lots of lube...warm it up and stretch it out. Bleeding can lead to serious infection so be careful...
Soreness means you're too rough...tell your bf to find some other way of getting himself off.
2006-11-11 12:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
ohh gosh how i remember how that feels.you poor girl.anyways i know this sounds really embarressing but i swear i had to do this once use preparation h gel and use the wipes.also make sure when you go to the bathroom you wipe front to back so you dont get any infections.the bleeding and soreness will go away in a day or two.also i swear this works to take a bath that has epsom salt in it
2006-11-11 12:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I heard if you lots of KY jelly in your anal & on his penis and go very slow in the beginning.
2006-11-11 14:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by capecodsandbars 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Any werido that wants you to take it in the a%* tell him to bend over and jam a cucumber up his and ask him if it felt good. That should end that.
2006-11-11 13:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stop doing it! Your vagina stretches to accomodate but your anus doesn't. Plus, it can cause permanent pouching.
2006-11-11 15:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by silentstorm025 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
they make special lubes that contain benzocaine to help with the pain.
try www.livethefantasy.com
I think its called analeze
2006-11-11 12:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by grapelady911 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Go slow, and use plenty of lubricant
Kassie
2006-11-11 12:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop taking it up there, it was never meant to be done like that.
2006-11-11 12:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋