her a spanking after dinnner how should i do it i rarely spank and she deserves a good 1 for the way she has been acting do i put her overmy knee bare bottom my hand the "spanking spoon" what need help
2006-11-11 12:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by anastasia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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If so, throw away the spoon, you can only cause damage with that. All others are OK, over the lap is the safest way to spank, also pants must come down first. If your going to do it make it count, but don't go overboard by leaving marks. A very red bottom should do the trick.
2006-11-13 20:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spanking is not the solution to this problem, I suggest that you explain to her how upset you are, and give her time out, or you take time out to calm down. Take away her favorite TV show, or her favorite toy and tell her when she begins to listen and obey, she can have them back. Do not label her saying BAD girl, you will only infuriate her and your teaching her, how to deal with life, just hit when someone does something you don't like. That's not a good lesson.And make sure you tell her you love her, and have her apoligize for her behavior.
2006-11-11 21:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by lennie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
steps to handle problem:
1. talk with daughter
2.dont let her do something for bout as long as u want depending on situation
3. if does again spank take more away. but usually works after step 1-2
2006-11-11 20:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok one thing i think you should not do is do it after dinner you have to do it right after what ever she did. dont use it like by saying " i am going to right after dinner. she might not put it together after dinner do it right away. use your hand that way you really know how much your hitting her. and bare bottom is fine but never when your out. good luck
2006-11-11 20:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well mam the way are law system works these days
you can go to jail for spanking your own kid
so be careful
2006-11-11 20:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by BIG JOHN 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
spanking is good, as long as you explain why she's being punished, and as long as you don't do it while you're angry.
2006-11-11 21:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Open handed with her pants on.
2006-11-11 20:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋