I dated this girl in high school and we broke up because I went away to college. 8 years has past and we have remained friends and have 'hooked up' a few times though out the years. She is the girl I compare everyone too and the only one I have ever really loved. I dont think she is seeing anyone right now but she is so beautiful and sweet I know she wont last for long. I might be moving close so thats what has me thinking. Do you think I should say something now, or wait until i move back (if I ever do) I am afraid that I may miss my oppertunity to give us a real chance. We just spoke today on the phone and had such a good time. I have always just loved meeting lots of girls but I for some reason I cant stop thinking about her. What should I do? Im so confused
2006-11-11 12:28:01 · 8 answers · asked by Good S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, like many things in life, it is definitely a risk. If you tell her and she gets really annoyed by it you could lose her forever, even as a friend.
We can't tell you what you should do. This is a judgment call, something you have to decide for yourself. If you think there's a good chance that she feels the same way, then you should consider asking her. But keep in mind that just the fact that you seem to have a good time talking on the phone doesn't mean she will say yes. And if you get a definite no, then make sure you never bring it up again.
2006-11-11 12:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. The only thing you'll make is that you're taking the risk and that is something girls really apreciate from a guy. Like I said, go for it and don't let her go.
2006-11-11 20:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amaris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goshh that's sweet! Give it a try dear and say something. Peace.
2006-11-11 20:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP BEING SHY AND DONT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH TELL HER HOW U FEEL AND BE HONEST WITH HER. TALK TO HER THATS THE ONLY WAY U WILL FIND OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IFSHE IS INTO U.LOL
2006-11-11 20:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the sort of situation where alchohol is required, preferable lots of it.
2006-11-11 20:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't try you will regret it for the rest of your life
2006-11-11 20:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and do it quick!
2006-11-11 20:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell her how you feel.....GO TIGER!
2006-11-11 20:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kaley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋