ladies what do you think?

Question

i am student. i am 22 old. my fg is 19 old and she is now in the police. 5 months we did not meet because of her work. i supported but now i think it's too heavy for me. i really want to have sex with her but cant meet her for 5 months. can i do it with other gilrs or change the girlfriend? we call regularily each other and we really love each other..

Answer 1

let her know that you are waiting for her, and she will be very impressed that you waited that long and she will " thank you"

Answer 2

Well... my opinion is your young and she's young, right now she has her career to think about.. Don't go behind her back and cheat, tell her it's just too much right now that you can not see or be with her, tell her that it's probally better to go your seperate ways for now....Now if you love her and don't want to loose her, then wait for her..It's not like she's out screwing around with other men, cause you may think the grass is greener on the other side, But in reality it's not....If she's a good girl, then she's worth the wait, If you can't wait for her then maybe she don't need someone like you....But like I said before you are young and majority of guys your age don't want to settle down just yet...But the choice is yours...Just don't make a stupid choice and mess up a relationship and friendship 4 good, just so you can get off..

Answer 3

If you love her so much, then why would you want to go out and have sex with another girl? And also if you love her so much you would support her job disregard the fact that you can't really talk to her. And you wouldn't be just thinking about sex, so just wait for her.

Answer 4

You need to discuss sex in your relationship during this time. If you feel that the love between you two is not strong enough to withstand 5 months without sex, then I think you should reconsider the relationship.

Answer 5

Man are you stupid? If you do it with another gurl then that is cheating. Do you want to cheat on her? I thought you loved her? Dumping her for another gurl because you can't have sex for 5 month is wrong. I guess that means you don't love her as much as you said you did, if you really loved her you would wait.

Answer 6

Hi there,

Yes, you do love your girlfriend and it is incredible that you have supported her the way you did! - that is fantastic and I am sure that she is really grateful to you. But look out for yourself too because you also have to spend on yourself too and look after yourself whilst she is absent from you.

I don't understand why you cannot see her for five months and unless she is forbidden to see you by the police force job, then I see no other reason why you cannot get to to see each other?

If you live too far apart from each other, then perhaps you should both arrange to meet up one weekend when she can be free of duty and you free of study even if that means travelling out to see each other. Five months is an incredibley long time to not see her and naturally, you are going to feel the way you do - anyone would feel neglected.

I would strongly sugesst, calling her and for her to make some time for you and her to meet up even if it means you going to see her and her paying for half your ticket. She is in a full time job and if you have been the one suppoting her for so long, now it is time for her to give a little something in return too. She would be more than happy to do this and am pretty sure that she can get some time off from her job to see you no matter how new to the job she is.

People don't work seven days a week usually and will be given time off if they ask for it and with christmas coming up, this is going to be a horrid time for you if you don't get to see her. It is a little unfair of her if she doesn't arrange something with you and if she refuses to, then yes, find a girlfriend who will want to be with you.

Clearly, she is making you wait for five months and if she wanted to, would make some effort to see you if she really wanted to. By not doing so, is quite horrid and unreasonable on her part whatever the reasons she makes. She needs to meet you half way and if she doesn't make any effort to see you, then there is no point in continuing with the relationship if she is giving you excuses not to see you.

When you get to see her next, it is likely that both of you will have changed in your own little ways as time apart does this to you. You may find that she no longer needs or wants you and given that she is now independent from you, she will have changed already. I have a horrible feeling that she has moved on from you and is trying to put the distance there between you so that you will gradually end up splitting up.

You will know if she is trying to do this by the way she will refuse to meet up with you. If you feel this yourself anyway, my best advice is to let her know how you feel and give her an option of what she wants to do next?. - you cannot wait five months with no contact - this is unreasonable for her to suggest and is not fair on you.

Let her make the decision, but if she doesn't make one, then you make one for yourself. Don't see other girls until you know where you stand with your girlfriend first but really let her know how you feel about this five month seperation and tell her that it is far too long for you to wait - she has to meet you half way. If she loves you enough, she will want to and make some plans to meet you.

Answer 7

Well if you do love her than you should wait but if you just want to hit it then move on and dump her *** and get another girl who you can see reguraly

Answer 8

If you really do love her do not cheat on her wait for her and it will be better then anticipated.

Answer 9

if you loved her this would not be a question you would be in the bathroom taking care of your business untill she gets home..

Answer 10

If you love her and want to be with her do not cheat on her.