I come from a family of 9 kids 2 of them being girls and the rest guys. I confronted my sister about an affair I thought she was having but in fact it was with a girl she fail in love with. She is married amd has 4 kids. I have known this for a year now but she continues to tell me about her issue and waht she should do. I try to advise her correclty but I know my advice is to get away from the other girl to save everything in her life. See we come from a big family were this is not acceptable at all. The cheating would not be a big deal compared to her falling for a girl. she is always debating if she is bi or just likes sertain woman. I am tired of spaeking to her about this issue al together. I want for it to go away but I have to be there because no one else knows and she needs me. I just don't know anymore.
2006-11-11 11:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by Juicy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not your problem, but I have to wonder if your sister is ready, willing, and able to live her life as a lesbian. If that is what she wants, then I say more power to her.
2006-11-11 12:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again, like its been said here, its not your problem, stay out, itll cause hardships between you two. She has to go her own way and do what feels right for her. Support her the way a sister can, but try to keep opinions to yourself. Let her try it, she may realize that this isnt for her, pr she may get totally involved and want to bring it up to her husband and they will take it from there. Good luck.
2006-11-11 20:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your problem, Stay out of it .Tell her to leave you out and not share such personnel information ,you are not her therapist.
Being married to a woman that is bi would be way better than having her cheating with another man. Just my opinion.
2006-11-11 19:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept her for who she is. It's her life and i undersdtand you want to do what is best for her, but sometimes, we have to let go. She's a grown woman and she has to learn from her mistakes.
2006-11-11 20:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Amaris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she should have brought you into this , it's not fair to you .
Maybe you need to tell her that you want to be out of the whole thing .
2006-11-11 20:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋