It started before work at taco bueno when the guy at the drive through sat at the drive through for like 10 min. It got so pissed off that I started yelling like some kind of idiot. that's not the real problem, the real prob. is this, I am at work and I take calls for reservations and every call is stressing me out and pissing me off. What is wrong with me???
2006-11-11 11:43:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are just having one of those bad days.... Take a deep breath, maybe go lock yourself in your car and scream with the windows rolled up, or go take a walk. Get away fro mthe situation it will make you feel tons better!!! Good Luck and i'm sorry you are having such a bad day!!
2006-11-12 05:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by EmnEm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
1. You are perfectly normal, but you do work in a very stressful work environment and probabley very unhappy with your job too. So being angry at the way others treat you, is not abnormal at all - it is very normal.
2. You are angry because of this reason and also because you feel that the job is not taking you anywhere in life. I think that looking for another suitable job where you can use your mind and talents a bit more will certainly make a very big difference to your life and the way you feel.
Enrolling on a course to get some qualifications to do something else will boost your self-esteem and give you something to work towards and look forward to. You need a goal or two by the sounds of things and your job cannot be stimulating in any way at all and is contributing to the way you feel inside.
People trigger our anger in different ways and where you work, is the kind of place that is going to trigger you own anger as it requires you to be patient, calm and well-mannered all of the time. But when you have calls to deal with and angry drivers, of course, your patience is going to tested by these people who don't mean to trigger your anger, but do so without realizing it.
This job is very stressful indeed and would seriously think of getting out of it and into one that isn't quite so buzzing. Then, you can figure out why you do feel angry if you still feel this way even after leaving, there maybe other issues going on inside of you that are to do with other things, but working where you are isn't going to help you at all.
If you feel depressed and tired as well as being angry, then it is likely that you are upset about something that has yet to be talked about and you are keeping your feelings well-hidden. Anger is a build-up of emotional pain inside and what causes us to be depressed. So, what you are really angry about is stuff of your own as well as angry about how your job makes you feel - this is why the anger is as strong and as powerful as it feels.
Leaving the job for a calmer one would be much better for you and then see how you feel after this.
2006-11-11 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an anger problem. You may need to see a therapist to see what the real reason is for your anger. Once you understand the real rason, you can take steps to resolve it. You also have to make sure it is not a symptom of a more serious problem. There are many psychological problems that can lead to uncontrollable anger. Fortunately there are medications you can take to supress your anger.
2006-11-11 19:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by professortvz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You ar ehaving a bad day/week. Run yourself a hot bath and light some candles. Just seperate yourself from the world.
2006-11-11 19:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from the real world and relax.
2006-11-11 19:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kate B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to be that way working at 7-11 store. boy the kids at night would just get to me. one night it was an adult that got to me ,he was drunk and did alot of stuff. so i got mad at him,and he pissed on the windows outside of the store and i change my job as soon as i could. i feel more better now. keep your cool.
2006-11-11 19:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by cutemay1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PMS. It'll pass. Maybe your job is just stressing you out and you're tired of it. Perhaps you should consider a change in occupation?
2006-11-11 20:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe it has something to do with your sleeping habits
2006-11-11 19:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋