2006-11-11 11:34:50 · 20 answers · asked by doublewidemama 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not trying to imply cheating, but what I'm asking is, is if you have had loving relationships in your past...and are now married, is your spouse the best lover of everyone with whom you've had an intimate relationship...
2006-11-11 11:42:17 · update #1
No...my spouse was not my best lover, but that was not the primary reason for being with him either....The sex was good, but not, OMG sex either! I loved him and would still be w/ him if he was not such an ***, the sex had nothing to do w/ the split.
2006-11-11 11:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse is supposed to be your only lover unless you are talking about previous relation,s before marriage, You did not specify. Be fateful thing,s have a way of catching up with you!
2006-11-11 11:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have faith is the worry-loose ingredient that makes a decision. Emotional stability is the the two significant ingredient. The demands on 'emotional stability' are greater on the companion than a buddy. (working example, if we are stricken by ability of 'AIDS' virus, quickly after marriage, not unavoidably simply by our negligence or wilful misdeed, a buddy exhibits it much less perplexing to sympathise. yet a companion has to workout greater warning, and fore-go a physiological desire for the the remainder of the existence.... the demands on a companion is somewhat greater. that's only approximately like the kind between looking at a action picture, and being interior the story of the action picture!). Agreed, not all circumstances are that badly extreme, in daily existence. yet apprehensions creep in with out waiting for permissions. And emotional themes are sought to be dealt with logically, and that's the place variations creep in maximum frequently. With a buddy, the very foundation is unconditional, and good judgment does not creep in that rapid. .. not in basic terms some companion.... fortunate are those infants who locate their determine or mothers and dads to be "like" their buddies!
2016-10-21 22:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by lindgren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon your relationship with your spouse. If there is love, trust and companionship then your spouse should be your best and only lover.
2006-11-11 11:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by thunk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, the longer we are together, the better it gets..As we know each other so much better and more intimately, we appreciate the love and intimacy even more than when we were just beginning. Making love is truly making love, not just having sex. 22yrs and going strong!
2006-11-11 11:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. However, we have been woking on that. I have been trying to show her what I like and have asked what I can do to please her. There's more to it than ejactulation and orgasm. It's all a part of marriage.
She has been my only lover since we married.
2006-11-11 11:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE THE OTHER GUY IS THE BEST LOVER I EVER HAD THATS THE AFFAIR GUY HE IS THE BEST HE IS BETTER ALOT BETTER IN BED THEN MY SPOUSE
2006-11-11 11:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe he is. I am the most comfortable with him and he knows how to please me. Not too proud but I have had more than a few in my time. My hubby is and always will be the best.
2006-11-11 11:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-11-11 11:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by TAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your spouse should be
1.your best lover
2.your only lover
3.your only best friend
4.your only "sex provider"
5.your only everything for that matter
2006-11-11 11:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋