i found out i was pregnant yesterday and that it's my ex-husbands child too! well we divorced because 2 weeks ago i found out i was by-sexual and well...um.. my ex doesn't know yet how should i tell him and i'm also dating this really hot blond. she knows about it and we wanna get married! but, back to the child i've been pregnant for 5 weeks and i really didn't notice. what should i tell my ex-husband?
2006-11-11 11:31:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have to agree with Maestar in pointing out the obvious...
What state do you live in that allows someone to get divorced in under two weeks? Were you married just the week before? Do you ride a unicorn to work with your hot blond girlfriend? Or was this question written to be some kind of a fantasy...like a two week divorce obviously is.
2006-11-11 13:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Erika H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bottom line is that the decision is yours. You're the one pregnant and it's your body. If you decide to keep the child then I feel you need to tell your ex-husband. It's somehting you did together and you both have responsibilities. Finding out your bi-sexual and now you want to marry this new blond lady has nothing to do with your child and ex-husband.
2006-11-11 19:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by reefer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should tell him because like a lot of other people have stated the baby is his as well..thats cool that your g/f is comfortable with the fact that your pregnant..about you not knowing until just now is completly normal..most women dont find out until they are 8wks or even longer....but yes tell him..dont worry about the small things like custody or child support until the baby is born this will just put more stress on you and that isnt healthy when your pregnant ..hope i could be of some help good luck with everything...
2006-11-11 19:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by bridgette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are Bi and dating a hot blond then i am sure when you give birth to a baby that your ex will know that your girlfriend didn't get you pregnant. I think you should tell him , it will be the best thing for you to do
2006-11-11 20:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know. This is something the two of you need to discuss. You also may want to rethink getting married so soon after getting divorced. And...JMO-5 weeks isn't really long enough to get to know someone well enough to marry them...especially if you "just found out" you are bi-sexual.
2006-11-11 19:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Truth
2006-11-11 19:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by evry1luvsabrunet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALL YOU CAN DO IS JUST TELL HIM, WHAT CAN HE DO TAKE THE BABY FROM YOU. SO WHAT YOU ARE BI-SEXUAL. TELL HIM AND HAVE YOUR BABY AND YOU AND YOUR EX-HUSBAND RAISE THE CHILD AS GOOD FRIEND AND YOU DO YOUR THING.
2006-11-11 19:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell him? The better question, is why were you sleeping with him if you are in love with someone else? are you sure you are over your husband?
2006-11-11 19:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by crzygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are going to have to tell him and the sooner the better.He will have to pay you child support and I am positive that he is going to want to be involved in his baby's life.It is only fair to tell him soon!
2006-11-11 19:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he already know about the baby?? cause if not he deserves to know its his too and about the rest just tell the truth its gonna come out anyways!
2006-11-11 19:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋