my husband is at fire fighter school.he will be there for like 7 months.but my in laws always asking me things.they be calling the house,and if the phone is busy they call my cell asking me if im on the internet.now his aunt went all over town,saying i was on the net talking to guys.then she be calling over here,and when i answer the phone she ask if im home,like if there's anyone else here with me.the other day i got pissed and told her what she doing asking if im home,since im the only one here.why are they watching me so much?its so anoying.i dont go to their houses,i dont call them and stay away because they always have something stupid to say.and when you answer back they get ofended.but what do you think they have up their sleeves?
2006-11-11 11:20:05 · 11 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i go on the net and talk to my sisters who are very far.and also i make a little extra cash answering surveys and reading e mails.but theyre making it look like if im trying to cheat or am cheating.i love my husband a little too much.
2006-11-11 11:22:09 · update #1
Because they have control issues and want to control your husband's life. The fact that he has his own absolutely kills them. Tell them to mind their own business, your husband is married to you, not them.
2006-11-11 11:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's time to let your husband know that they are overly intrusive.
Wouldn't be surprised if he asked them to help you out if you needed it, or even keep an eye on you.
I doubt he meant it to be this way though.
Tell them you appreciate their concern, however, you feel like they are intruding on your personal life, and would appreciate being given a lot more space than they are.
Don't get nasty with them about it, just set boundaries, and enforce them. If you get nasty, it will be ugly for a long time, and that won't serve anyone any good.
Best of luck.
2006-11-11 19:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get use to it because that is what they do. Just make sure you let them know of things that they NEED to know. Other than that keep your life private as much as possible, your in laws are not your friends but just wanting to find things about you so that they can gossip
2006-11-11 19:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur husband mite hav been cheated on in a serious relationship before and his family js dnt want him 2 get hurt again, ask ur husband about it if u can nd ask him 2 talk 2 them
2006-11-11 19:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by mantona69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to look out for their son, and you are not helping, not that I blame you, but try to look at it from their point of view, and try to be pleasant, when they ask their stupid and annoying questions, good practise for when you become a mother in law
2006-11-11 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally with Race X
2006-11-11 19:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want yall to brake up with him. Stay strong hunny. Just ignor them.
2006-11-11 19:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In-laws are nosy cause they were invented that way....Look up "nosy" in dictionary.....it will say.....bitchy in-laws.......invented for torture to spouses.....derived from outlaws who lived millions of years ago......
2006-11-11 20:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get caller ID and when you see it's they who are calling, don't answer them.
2006-11-12 03:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to back off, it's none of their damn business
2006-11-11 19:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋