lets say: if you try REALLY hard to please someone, is it true that it is a turn OFF? why?

Answer 1

yeah, u do not want to be a STALKER, i have lost countless women due to that. The opposite sex wants time with you not over their shoulders. If you see someone too often, you can get sick of them.

Answer 2

Yes it is true, you are seen as kind of weak and too easy. No longer a challenge. Guys used to do that all the time, and i would just look right over them because I saw them as almost desperate.

Answer 3

You start to come off as desperate and a loser (sorry for using that term but it's true) Just do it subtle.

Answer 4

It kind of is. I mean, let's say that you have been all afternoon trying to give them what they want (in a way) they are not satisfied. You are tired of trying, you are just not that into it anymore.

Answer 5

yes.....as unfortunate and couner intuitive as it sounds...pleasing people are a turn off.....first you can never expect them to be really honest...cause all they want to do is make you happy and second they come across like a bit of a doormat...hard to respect a doormat

Answer 6

Yes,too desperate.

Answer 7

the answer is psychological. you can't try too hard until the person has fallen in love with you. you gotta do that first

Answer 8

Yes that is very true

Answer 9

because! you come off as being desperate and needy! people need space and freedom

Answer 10

they needed to breath and when you smoother them, they won't be able to breath. just like an overfed fish dies earlier than fish feed moderately