about a year ago i shoplifted for the first time i became addicted and i love to shoplift panties and coats. One day my mom caught me playing space monkey and put me no the dr. phil show. He sent me to a rehabilitation center where i was raped by a man who ironically looked like dr. phil's oldest son. After i came home i have been addicted to sex and morphine and shoplifting. I told my mom that i was raped but she doesn't beleive me and i think i might be pregnant i feel like this is the worst situation of my life and i don't no what to do!?!?!
2006-11-11 10:41:05 · 22 answers · asked by sarabojangles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
caught you playing space monkey...classic.
2006-11-11 10:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never saw u on the show, when was this????? Tell a cop or someone?? Tell a cop or someone? Bersides your Mom? How long were ya there? Ya connot get addicted to Morphine that easy. Sex u probably always were. Go see a doctor ASAP!!! and a shrink!
2006-11-11 18:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should go to the police still even though time has past. also u should go to your doctors and say what has happened to u. he can help by giving u advice and also helping u and your family to talk and get over it slowly. u need to be tested for std's as well. as for shoplifting i think its because u feel alone and u need some 1 to be there for u. talk to friends and make your mom know u are not joking by taking her to the police with u and the doctors.
2006-11-11 18:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Matthew E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your mom doesn't believe and your pregnant she will believe you soon. Talk with your mother and tell her you need her to help you. If your mom won't help you go to your school counselor and tell them what has happened. As far as being addicted to morphine where the heck are you getting that? You really need professional help. A professional will help you as long as you are honest. If you are not honest you will continue to do the same things looking for different results and that my dear is insanity. Seek help.
2006-11-11 18:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you need to report this to the police who will take your claims seroiusly.
You know what happened and justice of some sort needs to be found out of this horrific crime. Your vulnerability was taken advantage of and the perpertrator to be sought out and brought to trial. It will take time for the police to gather the evidence they need, but what happened to you should never have happened and any other women whom this mat have happened to.
I am not suprised that you are turning to familiar addictions for support when you are not beleived by your own mother who seems reluctant to take your side on this. Get support from the police and victims of crime support centres near to your area.
If you are pregnant, that is good solid evidence and whoever the man who raped you was, will be caught out if he is still working at the same rehibilitation centre. Tell the police who you think this man you think is responsible, because even if found innoccent, he will at least be eliminated from their search for the perpetrator - if found guilty through any dna testing or other evidence, he will certainly be prosecuted.
He should not be allowed to get away with this and our instincts about something are usually right, so please beleive in what your instincts are telling you.
Your trust was also abused and although I don't know much about television shows, doesn't make these kinds of people in entertainment, trustworthy people. There was once a case in Britain where one very famous television presenter had been accussed of serial rape and it only took one woman to come forward about it for many others to come forward too. You don't know if there will be other women who have gone through what you have.
I would seriously have this reported becuse if you don't, you will be the one feeling guilty for something that you didn't do. With or without your mother's support, you need to try and get support from outside of the home and to tell someone how this has affected your life since.
You will be beleived. All cases of rape and sexual assault are always treated very seriously no matter how famous somone is, what they did was abuse your trust in them to get you help and only to place you in the care of a rapist in their midst. If this was his son and you strongly suspect he is, the unborn feoutus once born will be evidence enough through dna if he is the father, but they will go through many many investigations and this will hopefully lead them to this heinous crimminal.
But what is important right now, is to have this reported because what happened to you should never have happened and you are not guilty for what somone else did to you - they took advantage of your vulnerability and they are the ones that need to be brought to justice here, not you!
You are also not to blame for how you have reacted and behaved since this. Your emotions are going to be all over the place and naturally, you are going to be extremley traumatized too. Speak to your doctor about getting some addittional therapy to talk about what has happened and about the way your life has been affected by this. This is absoloutley terrible for you and no one has the right to invade another person's body without consent.
Do the right thing and get the support you deserve and don't feel to blame for what somone has done to you. Report this monster now and it is never too late to report a crime, so don't let that put you off because you were too afraid before quite naturally so.
Good luck and hope this man is sought out and be made answerable to what he did - he is very wrong for his actions and he must be made responsible because you are not guilty for someone else had done to you.
2006-11-11 19:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dr. Phil? wow. that's all i can say. if you're really telling the truth, i'm not sorry for you, cause you shouldn't have shoplifted or played space monkey.
2006-11-11 18:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first go get check by a doctor,then talk with someone about your pregnance.then next take birthcontroll pills if you are not pregnent.you should get help about the shoplifting thing.
2006-11-11 18:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheer up, there's good news. This is not the worst situation of your life. The worst thing about your life is the fact that you have nothing better to do than to make up ridculous stories like that.
2006-11-11 18:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You are a liar, Dr Phil helps people and you drag him into your terrible lie. You should be ashamed!
2006-11-11 18:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Since you went to the Internet first, instead of the police, I'm not inclined to believe you either. Even if I did, what the hell would *I* possibly be able to do about it?
2006-11-11 18:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋