How can I get over thinking about my ex-gf it is litteraly making me sick to my stomach? It's been two weeks since we broke up and I have barely talked to her I am still madly in love with her, and I spill my heart to her everytime and it seems like its not enough for her to believe me.
2006-11-11 10:37:25 · 19 answers · asked by ericlouisville1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What you should do is face the fact that it's over. I've always looked at it like the person turned me down and this person doesn't love me anymore. So why should I continue to love you when the other person isn't feeling the same? Don't do this to yourself. Move on and stop talking to her. That's tourcher for you. Start dating someone else to help you move on. But don't miss lead this person either. And you don't have to tell them what's going on. Give yourself 6 months to 1 year to date only. Then try to get into another relationship if that's what you want at that time.
2006-11-11 11:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that happends then u need to move on. I know you still have feelings for her but 2 people are suposed to put forth an effort in a relationship! So that is all u can do jusr see another girl that is different because u don't want to get the same feelings when u are with some one similar to her. And just have fun and live life life is to short to be sad about it u can be dead and gone tomorrow so just live life like there is no tomorrow!
2006-11-11 10:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good advice as long as you are spilling your guts out to her she is going to make let you keep doing it.Now if you quit doing it and just go away and deal with it like a man or boy letting her have sometime alone she will think about all the things you have said.Maybe if you are lucky and you didn't say something stupid she might give you another shot.Then again maybe you should ask yourself why did you 2 break up.Who did the breaking up and whats going to happen if you get back together.Sounds like alot of imaturity for you to keep spilling your guts.
2006-11-11 10:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm so sorry. You can spill your heart every time, but if she doesn't love you anymore, it won't make a difference. The best thing for you is to move on. Keep yourself busy so that you won't have time to think of her as much. Do things with your friends. It will take a while, but in time you'll feel better. Especially if you meet another girl!!
2006-11-11 10:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 've just got to hang out with your friends or do something like that,
Maybe get your friends to set you up with other girls,
This is coming from a guy, I'm 27 years old now, One thing i have learned over the years is that when chicks are done with you there's probably little possibility of getting back with her no matter what you do,
I'd just start looking, It's make you feel better right away,
WHo knows man she might be already with some other dude
2006-11-11 10:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there did that I broke off an engagement and I felt so sick I even went to the doctors for my stomach it was hurting me so bad take acid reducers stress causes your acid pump in your stomach to make more acid than you need take pepcid ac and do not talk to her no more keep your mind busy on other things quit spilling your heart out to her you told her how you feel now let it be. I know its hard
2006-11-11 10:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.it takes some time. You will find another girl till that happens, try like anything to chill. breaking up is hard to do but you have to remember that sometimes we are sad about the loss of the relatioonship, other times it is the person, most likely, and not to lessen yuor pain in any way, it is probabaly not the chick. Best cure, see your old friends, make some new ones, do not panic...!!!!! You are not going to die over this, it is just a setback, hang in there and forgive, forget and move on, if not.....she wins. best of luck, hang in there.
2006-11-11 10:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm what did u do to make her not believe u anymore? The best thing u can do is to keep busy at all times and try very hard not to think of her.It is only time that will help you.The longer u don't see her the better it gets.Really..I know it's not something u want to hear but time does work.
2006-11-11 10:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just going to take time. Find distractions, go out with the guys, that kind of stuff. Don't just latch on to a new girl, that never works, it only delays the process. Sooner or later, you will just stop thinking about her as much. There is no easy answer.
2006-11-11 11:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by warriorclan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she believes you but face it, she doesn't feel the same. you are making her uncomfortable & soon she will stop trying to be "nice" about it & just tell you to #### off! it's hard when you care for someone who can't return the feeling but you have to make the change. get more involved with friends/family/any activity to keep you busy. somewhere down the road another lady will peak your interest & this gf will be just another memory in the old nostalgia albumn
2006-11-11 11:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋