well my friend kimmie she and i always break up being friends then get back together this time she's telling all my other friends that i talk about them and that was yesterday and today she is asking to be my friend again? she takes away my friends then wants me back? and we've been friends since last year and had at least 54 fights i'm sure but she's in all my classes! how can i stay away from her and should i give her a 55th chance at being my friend?HELP!!!!!
2006-11-11 10:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by mischa m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since she is in your classes, I would be polite.
However, you don't have to be her friend. You don't need to talk bad about her, just keep her at a distance.
Next year, try to shake up your classes so that you are not in the same ones.
It sounds like she is very controlling...you don't need to keep a person like that close to you. However, don't let her stray really far so you can keep an eye on her. You can know what she is up to.
2006-11-11 10:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of girlfriends out there that don't play head games. She is not worth the trouble. Ask yourself what are you getting out of the relationship besides touble. Anyone that plays games I have no need for. Be honest with her and tell her what you just wrote about her telling all your others friends you gossip. And, tell her to take a hike. Stay far away very far away. Just because she is in your classes doesn't mean you have to talk with her. Sooner of later she will get the hint. She seems immature and needy.
2006-11-11 18:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probabley not. I Have some friends like that. One, it's really annoying for your other friends to listen to you guys moan and groan about the other and after 54 times they probabley don't care. Two, if she isn't fun to hang out with then get rid of her cuss her out, tell everyone you are not her friend and then stop hanging out with her. If she is your only friend find a new one and cut the drama. Trust me there is enough of it without a drama queen as ur best friend. Sorry to be so blunt but we're to young to deal with some lousy friend. I hope you take some sort of action.E-mail me if you have anymore issues with this "friend of yours"
2006-11-11 19:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by mstweetstarr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that shes trying to get rid of all your friends. she must be the jealous type. you probably accept her back too often without letting her know how much she hurts you every time. kimmie appears to me like she is out to ruin you. either she wants to be your only friend or shes jealous of seeing the way you act with your other friends. you are trying to run away from you problem which in that case would be Kimmie. tell her that you feel like she is no good and that her motives appear to be that of a selfish friend. explain that you still wanna hang out every now and then but for now you need time out. that way she doesn't feel like you hate her guts and is trying to totally avoid her. she needs to be true to herself to be true to you. hurting you constantly is not the way a true friend should go and like wise.
tell her how you've been feeling and what you've been thinking.
2006-11-11 19:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by mysticshabs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend. If you and she have been fighting on and off all this time, it's time to walk away from this friendship. She is lying to people about you. Friends don't do that.
Since she's in all of your classes, it will be awkward, but the awkwardness will go away.
2006-11-11 18:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if your tired of it or not. Is she worth hanging onto? You guys must be really young. This is normal.
2006-11-11 18:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by J~Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it really affects your friendship with other just let her know exactly how u feel and be straight forward with her and tell her ur tired of giving her chances.
2006-11-11 18:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Please Help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be a little less friendly, and slowly seperate from her and find other people to hang out with. when there is a fight, dont make it a big deal and find other people to hang out with.
2006-11-11 18:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friendly without considering her a friend.
2006-11-11 19:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by DAR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to lay off,and if she says shes not your friend say fine,i dont care,and if she wants to be your friend ignore her.
2006-11-11 18:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kaley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋