Im 19 and married do you guys think it okay to write how I feel in a journal when I feel like **** cuz he doesnt listen to me or should I express my anger and hurt in other ways?
2006-11-11 10:26:45 · 13 answers · asked by cutiepie21106 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People of all ages journal!!! If this helps you get though tough times then write till your fingers bleed!!!!
Want to change how you look at the world..... Get a new journal and use it for only positive thoughts.....it's a little hard at first but you'll get to the point that you'll see the world in a whole new light!!!
If your having trouble in your relationship...maybe you should try and talk to your little hubby about the things you decide you cant' accept to live with...this way he knows what he may need to address in order to be a better man and husband!!
Keep writing girl!!
2006-11-11 11:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can write a letter to him, expressing all the hurt you have toward him. I'm sure that it will help you in your marriage. Atleast he can read it and understand your pain. And if he still doesn't acknoweldge this.
Move on. He aint worth your time and effort. WHY pint up your anger inside. while the guy you are with doesn't value you at all.
You write to him, and see how it goes. Communication is the only key to the marriage. Without communication, well, ....then you really dont have much to go on.
2006-11-11 18:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by jane c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its okay to keep a journal. Im 27 and I have a journal. Writing down your thoughts is a way of relieving stress. :-)
2006-11-11 18:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's so wrong about it. It's nothing wrong w/keeping a journal. I do, and I'm 29 come 12/2/06!! It's more of a spiritual journal, but none the less. Write your thoughts down, it's therapeutic.
2006-11-11 18:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U know, I'm 21 and I still write in my journal. It's a good way to express yourself.
2006-11-11 18:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keeping a journal helps in times of need. Great idea! Good luck!
2006-11-12 13:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by DANCiNGGQUEEEN♔ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! Yes, yes, yes.
I wrote a journal from 16 to 18, the I threw it away. I wish I hadn't, as I could see how I was really feeling on a given day
2006-11-11 18:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It definitely is. I'm 24 and have a journal, cuz I've been told that it's good to have one. I'm just too lazy to keep up with it! lol
2006-11-11 18:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by pearl_682 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there are people that do that their entire lives. My mother was told to keep a journal after my father died. It helped her deal with his death.
2006-11-11 18:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is more than OK one day years from now you can give it to your own son/daughter and it may help them through some really tough times to know that they weren't the only ones to feel like they do so yes it is fine
2006-11-11 18:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by dixie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋