Well, my best guy friend really likes me but I'm not sure if I like him that way back. I mean I love him as a friend like my other friends, but I'm not sure about going out with him. Should I say yes or no? It's also kinda weird that he's shorter than me too but, if I say no, I'm afraid I might hurt his feelings. He really wants to go out with me cause he really likes me but, I don't know if I like him the way he likes me... what should I do!?!?!?!?!?!?!
2006-11-11 10:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him the truth. He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever. But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road. BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
2006-11-11 10:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by booksearcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go out with him in a public setting; but not a private setting? Second; consider your ages; society here in the US, restricts some things after certain hours.
Do not let the height difference bother you, my wife is about 4 inches taller than I.
2006-11-11 18:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by jefferyspringer57@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the petes sake, if hes your best friend, doesnt he deserve a shot? hasnt he earned that? give him one! if it doesnt work out, at least you tried, and you can be friends because you gave him a shot. but dont have your mind made up already. what makes him good enough to be friends, but not go out with? how does that make sense? say yes already! probably be the best relationship of your life!
2006-11-11 18:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by savgbst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well depending on ur age u should just speak ur mind to him, he'll understand if he's ur true best guy friend. but if u rly want to see if u like him or not go out w/ him and if its not working out just say so
2006-11-11 18:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its a good idea to date on of your male friends,because if it doesn't work out your friendship wont be then same.just explain to him how you feel.
2006-11-11 18:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by nicola r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel.. dont go out with him if you dont like him.. just tell him that youde rather just stay friends coz you dont wanna ruin yurr friendship..
hope this helps..
2006-11-11 18:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know he is just a friend.
2006-11-11 18:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all you what do you want to do
2006-11-11 18:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Gooni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep w/ him then decide......lol
2006-11-11 18:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋