I have 2 kids i took my wife down for child support. she work 2 job and she live with her parent. Both of us fighting for custody of the kids. Before i took her down for child support, we both made agreement towards the kids.She no longer wanna be marry to me
But at the same time she wants to know where i'm going and who i'm seeing. She told me a few times if she sees me with other female she would take me down for child support. All i want to do is do the right thing for the kids. I believe child support is for people who not around for there kids or helping out money wise for thiers kids only.
the reason i did it because i want her to she stop using it as weapon on me.
i told her the reason i did it and i'm willing to drop it. She told me if i drop she would get child support on me
2006-11-11 09:44:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1.Who has the kids most of the time? 2.Who makes the most $? 3.Get it in writing or on a tape recording anything she says or wants etc. 4.She has NO!!!! right to know what you do that doesn't affect the kids. You can date etc., she lives with her Mommy, what does she do every night? 5. She wants to control you. 6. TALK TO A LAWYER NOW before it gets too far!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-11 09:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who ever doesnt have the kids full time help to pay for there up keep , as for who u are seeing , none of her buisness unless it effects the kids , and am sure yr not wanting to do that just yet , so take it slowly when kids are around yr new partner , been there done it got t shirt, believe me bitterness affects kids in big way
2006-11-11 10:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry you and your wife are spliting up. its sad when two people who loved each other once cant love each other any more. but to answer your question don't see any one until all of your divorce is over . don't give her any reason to fight with you.i know its not the easiest time in your life but don't let her walk all over you because of your kids.life is about comprimise with the pepole you like , love ,or hate.joint custody is good for kids with two divorced parents because you cant take away kids that are loved by both of their parents.
2006-11-11 10:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your Ex still cares for you and as long as you make your kids first priority time will have to heal the wounds of a failed marrage. go and meet people but keep it discrete and make sure the kids can deal with this. your ex will have to fined someone else before she can leave you alone.
2006-11-11 09:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is crazy ****.....Don't drop it, you make it clean that your kids are the most important thing to you. She sounds like she just wants to hurt you in any wa y she can. She will try something else if things don't go her way. Be ready!!!
2006-11-11 09:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun let her control ur life n actions by her thraets ok. u deserve to live ur life to the max. let her know that her threats r nt needed n dat u dun wanna neglect ur kids bt u wanna b a part of their lives
plz dun let her push u away
if necessary nthings get too nasty
plz seek legal action b4 she drags u thru thr mud
2006-11-11 09:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by brawneyedempress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you have to pay child support, its for the kids, is it court odered. Its none of her buisiness who you are seeing. she should mind her own buisiness. Why dont u want to pay child support their your kids too. if you dont they can take away your liscence or garnish your wages. Go ahead and move on she is trying to control you, move on but still visit your kids.
2006-11-11 09:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! you are in a mess aren't you.. just go on with your life and support those kids and if you do find a partner well good for you.. your ex seems to think she can still run your life and have hers to.. not nice... good luck i hope you settle down soon .. for the kiddies sake as well
2006-11-11 09:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are so wacky today-both of you need to grow up before the children beat you to it!
2006-11-11 10:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still has feeling for u and she wants u guys to b a family and she doesnt want another woman around the kids unlees its her
2006-11-11 09:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by hot carmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋