its been such a long time...
2006-11-11 09:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i can remember something that used to make me happy, i just cant remember how it felt. and now when ever i think of that thing, it only makes things worse...just to know that i lost it and will never have it because im such a dumbass...
2006-11-11 10:14:53 · update #1
Try to surround yourself with positive people and believe that you'll feel better. It may not happen in an instant, but it will happen. It definitely helps to have people in your life that will uplift you and not bring you down.
2006-11-11 09:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by justmythoughts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you call someone who makes you laugh and feel good?Try not to be too hard on your self kiddo....Maybe you need a change of scenery..Sometimes that helps..A new job..Or a new person in your life...I was not happy with my first husband because he was such a Son of a you know what..Then I met my husband and found happiness and now I live in the Sunny Arizona desert and now I am totally happy because the cold cloudy days in Washington state made me unhappy...So you see, a change of scenery and a new person in your life might make a difference.
2006-11-11 17:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by sunnyday4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, put your problems aside for awhile, and only concentrate on things that you enjoy and have an interest in, or anything that would stir any excitement in your life, and figure out a goal, that you are aiming for that would be of interest to you, or would give you some excitement in your life. Sounds to me like you have been through some tough times, and experienced so many low points in your life, you forgot all the things that use to make you happy. That can happen to people, and just drain you of all your energy, and love of life. You first need rest, and then you must try to set a goal for yourself, of not something you need to do, but something you WANT to do!! Then you will find the energy to get though the bad, to get to the GOOD!!! Everyone needs something in there life that makes them Happy!! Good luck!
2006-11-11 17:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can remember. You just don't want to.
memory suppression is a common syptom of guilt.
Usually the sufferer believes that they have done something wrong and therefore do not deserve to be happy. So they suppress all memory of happiness to punish themselves for the imagined ( or real) wrong. It's a very complicated subject as happiness and guilt are sujective senses, not objective.
2006-11-11 17:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the doctor Monday and ask for an antidepressant. I take Celexa. It really has helped me a lot. Good luck.
2006-11-11 17:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit at your computer, and smile. try tickling yourself, or thinking of something funny that happened lately, my funniest thing lately was when i walked into a road sign as i was looking for something in my bag, the worst thing was, there were 5 people walking by, but i just laughed and so did they, that's all you can do relay , but try and laugh. good luck Hun ... mmmmm b happy!
2006-11-11 17:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by becky l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can always call me........hahahaha
why so sad anyways?
I have spells of sadness now and again and do not really know why....but I as well as you must try to go on.
if there were a way to e-mail you ..we could chat and I can make you laugh again...I am a funny guy and try to make humor from most anything.
GITURDONE!!!
2006-11-11 17:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by transvainia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This on;y happens when you don't want to remember happness.
Just go back to your youth and see in your minds eye for your begining when some one truly love you. Its in your mind and heart. It will always stay there.
2006-11-11 17:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by robert c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of me. I haven't been happy in the last 58 years. That should cheer you up or give you something to look forward to, later in life.
2006-11-11 17:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will pray for your happiness.
I think it has to come from inside, also.
I think one needs to just BE TIRED of NOT feeling happy FIRST.
Then D-E-C-I-D-E you are not going to stay that way.
Shed those sad thoughts. They are from satan anyway. Tell him to shut up--he's a liar.
Then, maybe, pray to be made HAPPY again. God listens!!
I say 'maybe', in case you believe in prayer.
2006-11-11 17:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋