I am 19 and my gf 21.
Today, i had unprotected sex with my gf [without condom! HOLY ****!!!!!!! The first unprotected time]
The moment she reached her orgasm, I felt one drop of my sperm got off my penis. I was not near cumming though. I am uncut and I only felt like one drop of sperm came off on that moment, I am not sure whether it happened or not!!
I am so scared people, please help me! does she going to get pregnant???? what should I do? how should I know that what happened??? This is a ****** situation, I will have bunch of problems with her dad and mom and with my mom and dad too... this gonna ruin my whole life.. someone PLZ HELP!!!
2006-11-11 09:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by lcx0l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She will not necessarily get pregnant. It's possible, but not guaranteed. To get pregnant a woman has to be ovulating; there are only a few fertile days a month.
If you're both very worried there are things she can do to prevent a pregnancy.
She can call 1-866-942-7762 and find out where to get EC, emergency contraception. If she takes that within 72 hours it will prevent pregnancy.
She could also get an IUD inserted. This would be effective in preventing pregnancy if she gets it within 5 days of the unprotected sex. She can call her gynecologist or Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-7526 if she doesn't have one. This would also function as contraception later, which you guys probably need.
Give her those two phone numbers and you guys can get the emergency contraception you need.
2006-11-11 09:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend just ONE time and he pulled out but obviously not soon enough cuz i got pregnant. so its possible ur girlfriend will get pregnant. if you REALLY dont want her to get pregnant then you can get the morning after pill.. i think if she takes it 72 hours or less after it happened, she probably wont get pregnant.. you might be able to get it at a pharmacy depending on where you live. but if you cant get that or if it doesnt work then if she wants, she can get an abortion which will cost AT LEAST $375... i thought having a baby would ruin my life too so i almost got an abortion but now that i have my daughter, i hate myself for ever thinking about the abortion.. i thank god every day for my daughter. i love her more than anything.. good luck i hope you and your girlfriend make a decision thats right for both of you
2006-11-11 09:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by xx_colombrazilian_xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. First of all,It's not that easy for a woman to get pregnant right away. It usually takes between 4-8 months for a "couple" to coinceive when having unprotected sex. It is very unusual for a woman to get pregnant the first time she has unprotected sex. I always have unprotected sex every now and then; sometimes the guys freak out. The truth is that I don't worry because I know that I won't get pregnant, plus I don't have any infertility problems either. That's just how the human body works. Trust me.
2006-11-11 09:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You really should consider going on the pill, or at least taking the morning after pill when you have unprotected sex. It baffles me that you did it twice and frankly, it's inexcusable. Take a test and, if you're lucky enough not to be pregnant, and if your boyfriend's not man enough to do it, BUY CONDOMS!
2016-05-22 05:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont even have to have one drop to get her pregnant. But why did you even do that. It wont necessarily ruin your life. Calm down. She is 21 for crying out loud. She is an adult. I got married at 19 and had our first baby right before i turned 21. You are both adults so why would your parents be such huge problems? JUst calm down. She probably isnt pregnant anyways. Hopefully it wasnt her time to be ovulating
2006-11-11 09:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down have her go to a doctor or emmergency clinic now and get a plan b. Also count from the first day of her last period if it's between 10-15 days she was ovulating take her to get the pills now. After 72 hours it is to late.
2006-11-11 09:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible to fall pregnant the firs time you have unprotected sex be honest with he and ask her to do a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease if its negative its a good thing but if its positive think of it as not trouble for your parents think of your girl and how stressed out she would be
2006-11-12 09:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not ready for a baby you shouldn't be having unprotected sex and even if you "pull out" you still have whats called pre ejaculation so good luck with that that's how my brother got his girl pregnant he thought pulling out would be enough boy was he wrong
2006-11-11 09:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by kailey0819 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time use protection. so you dont get scared like this again. Also i know your stressed but cut back on the swearing. I doubt she will be pregnant. but just to be safe make sure she tells you when she gets her next period! if she doesnt get it. have her take a test! best of luck!
2006-11-11 09:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should hav through of that having unprotected sex does couse pregnancyif u didnt wat her to get pregnant you should hav through of that b4 u had unprotected sex
2006-11-12 17:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by kirsty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋