My hubby has been cheating on me even though we're separated. He has had an affair before not long after I had my youngest child who is 2 years old and I've been told by his brother that he's been at it again. What shall I do?
2006-11-11 08:22:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The person that he did it with recently was an old girlfriend of his whom is married and I know them quiet well shall I tell her hubby what's been going off?
2006-11-11 08:28:58 · update #1
I'm not for sure the process, but if you're separated doesn't that mean you don't want to be with him anymore? If so, why would you care who he's with?
Unless you're still in love, let him go. The worst you can do is divorce him, which you were probably in the process of doing anyways.
2006-11-11 08:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for a divorce...he's disrespecting you, your marriage vows, and your child....you know what the saying is once a cheater always a cheater...i don't think he's gonna stop anytime soon so what you need to do is get rid of the problem, although your seperated but it still bothers you that he's seeing someone else, so when you have a problem what do you do? you get rid of it that is if your not trying to make it work.....but if i were you i would just go on with my life, the only thing you should want out of this is him having a relationship with your child....other than that take sometime out for yourself....don't go out looking for someone on the rebound.....i truly believe when you don't go out looking for something, that the right thing comes right to you when you least expect it.
2006-11-11 08:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me with my best friend. I divorced him.
I couldn't get over the betrayal, the lies and the disrespect.
I realize now, that he did me a favor. I am able to live my life how I want, and will be smarter about the choices in my life from now on.
2006-11-11 08:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by J~LOO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her husband because he deserves to know. Then you both should divorce them and move on with your lives. Then the two of them can have each other. Then you sit back and watch how stupid they both feel when they start cheating on each other. They deserve each other and will get what they deserve from each other
2006-11-11 08:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should file for divorce as far as telling this girls husband, he probably already knows. If your separated that isn't really cheating and I wouldn't give them the conselation of thinking that I cared enough to tell her husband.
2006-11-11 08:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek a pastor of a church or a professional counsler of faith. Don't neccessary need to give up right away. You must first try to attempt to make it work by taking the steps. If it continuous then you have biblical rights to leave him.
2006-11-11 08:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had an affair, then you separated, now he's with someone else, what you do is get a divorce, and move on.
2006-11-11 08:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the divorce finalized. Keep your daughter. Move on. Get child support. Alimony. Screw him over like he did you. He wont change. If he has cheated on you this many times, he wont stop. Good luck babe!
2006-11-11 08:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question you still have strong feelings for this man an don't want it to be over seek counseling, tell him how you feel an what you expect to save this marriage
2006-11-11 08:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See him for what he is and move on sister! Get custody of your children, and most of all - learn. Don't trust this type of man again. Good luck honey!
2006-11-11 08:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋