I feel I just never know what to say, without her believeing me.
2006-11-11 08:06:23 · 26 answers · asked by Donny M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh Lord, yup run into this one myself on several occassions. Ihave finally landed on "Because you make me want to be a better man." Used that the last time after a series of other really disastrous answers and it seemed to work. I hate to say it - but you are gonna have to do a hit-and-miss routine until you get an answer that she buys off on...then whatever you do stick with it!! If you change, your gonna hear "You really didn't mean it when you said..." and your screwed. By the way - don't waste time asking why they want to know such things - I don't think they even know why. They just wanna hear something to bolster themselves so give it to them and live happy...mess with it or ask her why and you're in for misery.
2006-11-11 08:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by sofgrant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sort of feels like a trick question doesn't it... rest assured it more than likely isn't. What was it about her that turned your head when you first met her... is she loving, kind, conciderate, caring, giving, forgiving? What does she do for you daily? It's the small things in a marriage that counts the most. When you start to recognize those little things she does for you daily... even your laundry, reminding you to do.. whatever you usually forget... then you can begin to answer that question more effectivly. ;) Another thing too... does she do things for others without complaining or being upset that someone has asked yet something else of her. Is she strong, secure? When you stop to think about your wife & everything she does.. it helps to jog the memory as to why you love her. :)
2006-11-11 16:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by its_me_horses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's asking then she must "think" she sees something suggesting you may not. If you do love her, be honest, and tell her how you feel...if you don't, you better be damn careful how you answer that or the wrong fireworks will kick off!!!
From experience I will tell you that if there is any doubt, be real careful what you say. If there is no doubt that you love her, then talk with her about how you can better show her, find out what she needs...is it words of affirmation or is it more quality time, or what about more physical contact (ie...hugs, pats, simple kisses...) maybe just doing some things together might be the trick...but don't fake it either...
2006-11-11 16:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Clean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read this kind of question and actually feel a modicum of sorry for men. As a dyke I don't even put up with this question. Grin sidelong at her, grab her and kiss her, then f her silly. That's the only way to answer that completely idiotic question, second only to "do I look fat in this" as the bane of all women and the biggest source of embarrassment to the entire female gender. Women who ask these questions should be put in a bag, beaten soundly and dropped in a river. - Signed, a lesbian
2006-11-11 16:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, you really only love her because your scared that if you leave her you wont get steady lay and also because its just safer and more secure for you to stay with her even though you constantly think about what could happen with other women on a daily, no, hourly basis. Then when she looks at you in utter shock and dismay, be like nah, just kidding. I love you for being.... w.e. the hell you normally say.
2006-11-11 16:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by hopes2graduate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, I think the truth is what you should tell her. If you can't think of anything right away, then you need to sit and think about the answer. You should never forget why you love your wife.
2006-11-11 16:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by globalsoule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah one thos q's all women ask. Am I to fat. Do i look fat in this. The guys think if i answer this wrong. The love is dead. Well, tell her the turth. What she is asking is this. What do you see in me that made you love me. If you phase like this. It is easier to undrstand.
Did you like her cuz of her humor, smile, her eyes ect. She needs to know this. That is why she aked you this q. I hope this helps you morer huggles.
2006-11-11 16:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Spooky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. Be sincere may she doesnt believe you because you dont show your love towards her, but just tell her how you feel and also sho her how you feel.
2006-11-11 16:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. She should know how you feel about her. Every woman want to know why. Was it her smile, her laugh, her kindness , etc It had to be something you married her. Let her know that
2006-11-11 16:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a moment to think of all of the reasons you fell in love with her when you first met.such as her smile, her personality, the fact that she is your best friend, and how she makes you feel about yourself.
2006-11-11 16:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shea B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋