I am so scard about labor again. i have been through it twice in the last 4 years so I know what it is like.
Is this normal for me to be really scard about labor all over again.
Plus i plan on getting my tubes tied 6 weeks after delivery and I am so scard about that to.
Is there something wrong with me.
Please if you had your tubes tied please tell me about it
2006-11-11 08:04:46 · 5 answers · asked by crazziegrl14 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i want to get my tubes tied when i deliver but the dr wont tie them for some reason intil 6 weeks after i deliver. He says he just feels more safier that way why i don't know.
2006-11-11 09:18:40 · update #1
Why don't you get your tubes tied when you deliver and have a epidural. That way everything is done under anesthesia you won't feel the pain of child birth and you tubes are tied at the same time. I wouldn't go back in six weeks get it all done at once.
2006-11-11 08:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady X 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to feel anxiety about giving birth. I think we all go through it regardless of how many times we have given birth because each experience is different. Its not everyday you have your tubes tied so I would think that that is normal to have fears about, as well. However, if you are feeling overwhelmed with fear I think you should speak with your doctor. He/She should be able to calm your nerves. Also reading as many books on what to expect may help, too. I don't know what I would have done without my "what to expect when you're expecting". An excellent book that prepared me for the labor and delivery process.
2006-11-11 16:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by FionaLeona 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are having completely normal feelings. If it makes you feel any better there are other options other than having your tubes tied.
Look into a procedure called Essure. It is another form of permanent birth control. http://www.essure.com Good luck!
2006-11-11 16:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women have it done the morning after delivery--you get it over with, and don't have to mess around with finding child care, etc. It really is not a big deal, and only leaves a very small scar.
2006-11-11 16:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by dekkfm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've never had my tube tied before. but i just want to tell you to relax stressing so much isnt good for the baby
2006-11-11 16:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Salem W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋