thats a say, and it became with me. i have a friend which i like her scince kg1, and in grade 5/6, she became to be more jealous of me, dislike me, and in the high school, she became to be more jealous of me, and dislike me, but i did not ever made something bad for her, always i talk to her and im always her friend, but she is always the opposite. when her other friend is absent she will come to me and she will be very good to me, but when her friend comes back, she will be very bad, rude and says things that will affect peoples feelings. every year as she grow up, she will be worser than the year before. she were my best friend from kg1, and now she is my enemy. im good with her, shes bad with me.
Please i want specific answers becasue i don't know why the best friends are at last enemies. please can anyone explain this?!
2006-11-11 07:54:02 · 4 answers · asked by Me <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Very sad. It sounds like she's pretty immature - you may as well just cut ties with her. Be friendly without being her friend. Don't allow her to continue to use you by only being around you and nice to you if her other friends aren't around. Continue to be the 'bigger person' by not being rude or saying hurtful things. I understand you are probably mourning the death of your friendship, but don't let her continue to haunt you. Is she truly being a friend anymore? Move on.
Best friends are not always enemies at last. But friendship takes work from both sides, and when one isn't willing to put as much into it. . . that can cause hard feelings that, left unchecked, can turn anyone into enemies!
2006-11-11 08:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by shellbugger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the looks of this, she was never really your friend to begin with because whoever treats there friend like **** around other people, but tries to be nice to them when they are alone is not a real friend. the best friends are at last enemies because you have finally had enough with her bullshit and realized that you are no longer going to take any of her crap that she constantly keeps throwing at you. in my opinion, you should take this quote for advice: "go forward and never turn back"
2006-11-11 15:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Eugene T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...if it were my friend, id try to sit down , talk to her,and she might change, but if not, then i guess, you just let her friendship pass you by, like i had to do with my old friend.you just have to let it go by and go on with your life.unless you have a better idea!
2006-11-11 16:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Baby101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she want someting new more frens shell come back
2006-11-11 15:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by bobbie_grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋