How to get the message across?

Question

I have a little problem. I'm a bellydancer and every time I perform I get at least a few women who think I'm a hoochie and at least a few men who think I'm dancing for male sexual attention. They don't approach me and actually SAY those words, but it's obvious as to what they're thinking. My husband almost got in a fight once with a guy because the guy was talking to me like I was a common whore. Some women tell me I have low self-esteem because they say I'm not respecting my body.

What is a nice polite way to tell them they're wrong about bellydancing and that in reality it's a female-empowering spiritual art form?

I've danced in many different places. But I get this attitude at scheduled performances that are sometimes held in art cafes and coffeehouses. I don't get paid to do it, and when I am paid, the money goes to charity.

Answer 1

just ignore them. there not worth the effort. the women are just jealuse and the men are just...well...i'm not getting myself into that. don't worry about them. just strut your stuff!

luck!

Answer 2

I agree with you wholeheartedly. I find the female body enchanting (not just sexually). With that being said, I must admit that it is quite hard for some men to seperate the female body and sex.

Where do you bellydance at? The venue is sometimes the problem.

Answer 3

I agree with u. however, were is it that u are preforming? if u r a professional belly dancer, and are hired entertainment, i can see that the people are being rediculous. however if ur in a club and start dancing like that, i dont know.. peopel may get the wrong idea.

Answer 4

ok; listen up if women likes belly dancing there's nothing wrong
with it at lease because of an Art in performance dancing were
any one can enjoy it even men takes Tap&jazzdancing
now!