i am 17 and i get bullyed at school some times if i fight i get sent back to junvie!?

Question

my names jessica, and im 17 and i go to high school and i get made fun of alot and i dont go to school cause i dont get along with many people and the have a best - friend but she dont go to school shes 19 her names samantha ive known her for a long time since we were little we are cuzes too! shes getting married she just had a baby shes 3 weeks old! so can u guyz please me with my problem i try to avoid school then i got sent to junvie for 44 days and just got home on wed. and i need your help !!!! thanks,
~ jess~

Answer 1

If you can't control your temper then get your GED

Answer 2

Hi Jessica. The main thing is to stay out of "juvie". I'm just an old guy to you, but do yourself a favour and make sure you don't go back to "juvie". If jerks at school pick on you try and ignore them or avoid them. That may sound impossible, but it wont be for long. Teenagers are the worst, but as these kids mature a bit, they will stop picking on you. Find yourself some friends that are not in the "cool" crowd and you will see in the future that they will be the cool ones and the other kids will be losers. Just be a pleasant person and you will make friends. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

First of all document everything in a notebook. If the school officials are not helping you because you have made bad decisions in the past remember you are still entitled to fare treatment in school. While you were at juvenile detention you should have been giving a case worker and/or councilor. Contact them with the information that the school will not help you with bullying. If they will not help then contact the State Superintendent and have your guardian file an harassment complaint against the school and the students who are doing it.
Check and see if there is an alternate high school in your area that specialized in non-traditional students. You may need to be in another school to get away from the garbage.
Good luck, do everything you can to just get your diploma and get out of there.

Answer 4

OK your 17 so go get your g.e.d. it's just as good as any high school diploma and you can still get into a college although i can't promise the same won't happen there , cause hun there's going to be problems anywhere you go so why don't you also try to work on your self-control . you can control your actions you do not have to fight back or even argue back
if i was you i would try learning self-control because you've been to juvenile already the judge could just send you to a training school till your 21 and then you will think that what was going on in school was better then what your going through there .
good luck

Answer 5

Dear jessica. Please get help before your whole life is ruined. Where are your parents? who is looking after you? First you need to go to your school principal and talk to HER/HIM tell them that you are being bullied at school , that you are being made fun of and that you NEED their help. THe SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! is responsiable for your education and the enviroment you are in while at school. Do not be combative when you speak with them this doesn't help.Explain that you really do want an education that you know you need their help and that you cannot do it alone then name names and TELL TELL TELL. NEVER GO ANYWHERE ALONE Always have someone with you and always report to the officer on campus EVERY!!!!!!! LITTLE threat. Go to the police department and Report any act ,gesture or word that is said to or about you. Ask for protection and file restraining orders against these kids. Why should you ever go to juvinal detention because you are afraid. Empower yourself find an adult councler or teacher who will help. DON"t stop until they listen. You are important you are worht it never let others make you feel down on your self .Hold your head up and remember GOD loved you so much that he sent his only son to die for you so that you could be the adopted child of THE KING OF KINGS. Joint airs with Jesus.

Answer 6

I know right the last thing you want to hear is go tell the principal but thats is the only way out unless you really want to go back and i know you dont other wise you wouldnt care about those people picking on you.Go have a talk with the counselor or something but dont try to handle this on your own

Answer 7

first and foremost, don't avoid school. not being there is not going to stop people from disliking you. and if they aren't smart enough to like you, then who cares what they think? i personally ignore stupid people because guess what? they never have anything smart to say. but neither will you if you don't go to school. people pick on you for a reaction jessica. they get off on having control over you. if they can say something mean and it makes you upset, it means they can control you. you must not let them see that it effects you. the easiest way to do this is to ignore it and NOT let it effect you at all! but if you can't do that then at least keep them from seeing it. the less effect they have on you, the less they'll want to pick on you. people do things for a result. if they don't see that result, they stop doing it.

Answer 8

Dont fight people at school. The best revenge on someone when they treat you like crap is to act like you dont care. Fighting only shows that theyre getting to you. Schools hard for me too but i dont skip it & you shouldnt either. I have no friends & i get picked on but thats part of school ....& life. I try to deal w/ it & yeah it bothers me but i cant just skip school. Youll be ok. Trust me. The reason these girls hate me though is cuz i act like i dont care which i dont. Show them that youre more mature.

Answer 9

Well I would just ignore them and try to make friends. But whatever you do don't fight. Trust me I am 12 and I get in fights at school all the time. Except my friend is a boy and we get in fist fights all the time and i am a girl.

Answer 10

the hardest thing to remember is it will get better. don't fight them or yourself. do whatever you have to so you can survive because age is a great thing. if i could go back to high school knowing what i know now i'd have a ball. it will get better.

Answer 11

Next time they make fun of you, dont even say anything, just let them think u aint gonna do sh*t, and punch one hard as hell, and walk away, unless she trys to hit you back, then WHOOP HERASS!!!! 44 days wont be that bad, at least you'll get respect